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Expensive Marriage!
Expectations from the bride’s family were declared haram. My husband and his family said they never wanted anything before the marriage however later on they had a lot they wanted.
Alone wife with serious marriage problems
When he gets angry, he slaps me, he says very abusive dirty words about my mom and dad, like prostitute pimp etc, though he is double masters. I don’t like this and when I say your mom is too like this he yells so badly at me and say my mom with very very dirty words which makes me kill myself at the very moment.
My sister being mentally tortured by her husband
Among us four siblings, my sister used to be the liveliest of all; beloved of parents and grandparents alike. She is now on depression medication because of him.
He’s changed after nikah, but we’re due to get married in 3 years – how will I cope with his anger?
I wouldn’t have had any problem if he got angry once every week but he gets angry almost every second day which has made my life hell. And then he is like I’m fed up of you, you don’t seem to understand me, you never listen to me.
Punishment for abusive husband?
I used to pray to God to help bring us closer and make us happy. But now I don’t see that ever happening. Now I just hope he will get punished for all the pain he has caused me.
Abusive husband and in-laws… What should I do?
My husband said he will snatch our child from me, that I would kill it or make it like myself. My mother-in-law said I was psycho-case and not able to look after my kid…. He slapped me and when I started crying loudly, started throttling me.
I need to know if it is a normal marriage
Trust me I do whatever he says, whenever he says. We dont fight like a normal couple because I don’t complain or misbehave with him, and I am being completely honest to you about it. I just can’t start an argument, because even our light discussions change his tone and anger him, so how can I fight? I am just too ‘scared of him’. Yup, that’s the word. I shouldn’t be, but I am.
Getting divorce will displease mother and relatives; will it displease Allah as well?
The main problem is if we have a divorce will it be displeasing to Allah (swt)? I am not the most religious of people but I put all my trust in Allah and put my relationship with Allah before all other relationships.
Controlling fiancé
I am to be married in a month a few weeks, I talk to my fiance through the phone… I realized that when he marries me he is going to control me so much, he already started telling me what I should not do..
If he is not a good muslim himself i.e does not pray 5 times and has commited zinaa am I to follow what he commands. He says I should not pluck my eye-brows and he wants me to be covering my face when I go out and I agreed to this cuz I do not like arguing..
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