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Burdened by debts

Now the debts have become so much that I am not finding anyway to pay it. My life has become a living hell.

In debt and surrounded by non-practising in-laws

There is no barakat in my house and I try to keep my children away from it but I can’t. I’m struggling…

Trapped between the risk of zina and usury

I think Riba “Usury” is a bigger sin but think I should get married then start paying off loan, what do you think is best?

Should I miss the wedding or go into debt to please my husband’s family?

My husband’s two brothers are getting married and I can’t afford to go… I got mortgage to pay and people’s debt… My husband’s willing to take more money off people but how are we going to pay it off……?

Wife not allowing sex because I can’t afford her

My wife cleared all my bills with her credit card… But after that she has stopped sex with me until I get back in a financial position to afford her

Torn between supporting my family and avoiding haram work.

My family taunts me for not taking responsibility. My decisions are wise in front of Allah but unwise in front of those on the earth and among me.

Please advise – my family and I are in debt

I was hoping that after marriage I will return all money I borrow, but my payments have been blocked, and now people come round our house for getting back money.

My life has become a labyrinth of debt and despair

As much as I want to die, I fear everything death entails. I often find myself questioning my faith. I definitely don’t want Hell but neither do I want Jannah. I only want to escape my useless, dysfunctional life.

How should I deal with selfish, jealous and interfering people? And any du’a for releasing debts?

When she had a first baby (with my brother) and second i went there bearing gifts and i use to go all out balloons, gifts and i mean expensive but yet when they first found out that i was pregnant the first thing she said was “is she going for an internal check up” who says that!

My husband put me into debt, had a child with me and then left

I am Macedonian Christian married to a Lebanese Shia Muslim. We both used to work in Middle East which is where we met and got married. My husband resigned from his job on the day we signed the marriage contract. He could not leave the country as the company where he worked held him responsible for a missing $22,000. He said that he can not ask his parents or sister or brothers for help as they will be angry at him.