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My wife’s family want khula

I’ve not been nice to my wife. I’ve not been treating her nicely and hitting her too. I still love my wife of course and want her back. But, she’s not number one in the world. Most women seem to think they are!

Am I wrong to want to care for my father? Why is my husband preventing me?

His girlfriend sent me pictures of their holiday whilst I was planning our wedding. He often hit me. I still obey him and always have. Do I not visit my father – my husband has no reason to say no but still does?

Parents won’t accept my nikah because of my husband’s race.

They told me to forget about my husband because my nikah isn’t valid because they weren’t there… even though I have already certified it with a mufti and maulanaa. My father has a history of domestic violence and recently hit me.

He’s been abusing me ever since we married

To make it short, I have been mentally and physically abused by my husband since I got married to him. He has raised his hand over me several times, he has strangled me to death, he has used all sorts of utensils to beat me up and broke my arm with a metal bar. But all this time I have kept myself quiet just because he is my husband.

Unhappy Marriage – A Result of Forced Marriage

I got forced married to this guy my dad liked… My parents care about him more then me. He hit me… I have pictures of it but my parents think I’m lying – think I did that to myself.

I want to leave my abusive husband, but I fear Allah’s punishment

I got married when I was 16 and it was an arranged marriage. After my marriage my husband love me but he act crazy. First he doubted me so much not its gone. My husband hits me when he angry…

Am I worth it?

I mean i am now 36 years old, i have four kids should i be wanting more? Should i not be living just for the kids and let him live his life? Should i not be content with what i’ve got? What have i got?

Complicated case of child abuse

I’m a 15 year old girl living in the UK and as far as I can rememeber, I have always suffered from abuse. I’ve suffered from 3 types of abuse: verbal, physical and emotional abuse from both of my parents and verbal and emotional abuse from kids at school my entire life. All of this has since last year, made me depressed, suicidal, a bit rebellious, lazy and inactive and cut off from daily life.

My husband is addicted to Cocaine

Salaam Alkum I am a revert Muslim before I even decided to get married. Anyway I have now been married for 9 years and have three young children. For the last seven years my husband has been addicted to cocaine. I have had to put up with him going out and staying out all night […]

Abusive cheating father and violent brother

Please help me on what should I do with my dad. My brothers and my mum, we have no life, its all just arguments one after the other and with my dad total silence. And I don’t think I can take it. I stay up to hours in my room crying and thinking how shall I handle things as my mum looks to me for advice and help and I’m stuck. I’ve been brought up so dependent on others due to being so protected that I can’t take the next step forward, as I always stop and think how it will affect my mum.