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Tag Archive for ‘domestic violence’

I am feeling lost and need advice

I am heart broken and very depressed. But know that if and when I try to get out of this relationship he will make my life hell and will make me suffer.

An abusive wife

I am deeply depressed thinking how I got myself into this situation where I’m afraid of being near my wife…

I feel guilty – should I tell my husband?

He beat me and would lock me in the home. But now he’s the world’s best husband. I feel guilty for having a phone friend and doing zina with them.

Wishing death for my abusive father

I just wish my dad was gone… That way we wouldn’t have to suffer…

My husband hit me and my mother-in-law threw me out of the house

Everyone asks me to get rid of him… but I really love him… what shall I do?

What should I do about my abusive husband?

I cite reasons to myself for not leaving him that children need a father figure. But inside I know… he will never change.

My husband hit me for smoking

I pray regularly and give charity and zaqat on time. I make an attempt to not lie and protect my baby from modern fitnas. To my knowledge I think smoking is one of my few vices.

Still haven’t left an unbearable relationship

The only reason I have stayed with him was my child, who is now 3 years old. But now when I see him not taking care of me as well as my child, I think I should leave now. I know my child needs a father, but a father like him? And would my child be okay seeing a depressed mother all the time or disconnected parents, who either fight or would not speak to each other for weeks? Or would he be better off?

Living with abusive mother for 25 years

As-Salamu Alaykum Wa Rahmatuallahu Wa Barakatuh,  For the past 25 years I’ve been living in a household that was emotionally, mentally, and physically abusive. My mother -May Allah SWT reward her- has been through a lot, but with that being said she has done a lot to me that damaged me pretty bad. I was always […]

Dreaming about my husband, although he has left me

I don’t know what this dream means. He removed me from the house; in short I am a victim of domestic violence. My in-laws also don’t like me.