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Torn between being an understanding brother and a loyal son.
We have two people who have conflicting motivation, methods, and life objectives. My brother aspires for a career now, and perhaps later will be a practicing muslim. My father wants my brother to be a practicing muslim now whilst having career aspirations. Now, my brother wants to move out and live separately because our father is sort-of becoming intolerant and forcible about practicing Islam.
I am a sunni guy loving a sunni girl. Help! This is serious and urgent !
We are both attached and honest with each other, but the problem is she is Memon. Her father is strict in doing marriages with outsiders and my father is strict in doing love marriages. Her father won’t allow us to marry, because they only do marriages in their own cast and tribes .
Molested by my father who is a Hafiz
He used to wrestle and pins us to the floor, he used to lick our face, kiss us, he used to touch our back. Astagfirullah but I didn’t understand or realised it since I was a teenager. A friend has pointed it out to my sister, she told her once occassion where my dad had pinned her down to the bed and she had felt his private part.
Depression and Anxiety due to sexual abuse by father, brother and cousin
I have felt suicidle, suffering from depression and anxiety for as long as i could remember, im not getting any support from my family. I don’t want to feel angry with my mother for not being there for me. She was very emotionally and physically abusive, she was also present on one occasion when my father sexually abused me at the age of 6. I can never forgive her for that.
Can I divorce my husband due to his absence and neglect?
I married my huband five years back, the first two yrs of my marriage were marital bliss then just after my first son was born, my husband was offered a job in UAE and he left. It has been more than 2.5 years now he has not called me there.
I want my wife to come and live with me again, but her father won’t allow it
I have been married for 3 yrs,live in australia and have a 1.5 yr son and another on its way in 3 months. My relation with my wife has been of unrest and bitter fighting since day 1..
Will Allah be happy with us for our sacrifice?
I like to know that, whether Allah will be happy for our sacrifice. I love a girl and she loves me too. WE prayed to Allah more then a year and also did lots of umrah and also prayed in the place of Dua in Kaaba. She said her wish to her parent and said she asked allah only for him and allah knows her heart. But father does not accept it because of status and society.
Abusive cheating father and violent brother
Please help me on what should I do with my dad. My brothers and my mum, we have no life, its all just arguments one after the other and with my dad total silence. And I don’t think I can take it. I stay up to hours in my room crying and thinking how shall I handle things as my mum looks to me for advice and help and I’m stuck. I’ve been brought up so dependent on others due to being so protected that I can’t take the next step forward, as I always stop and think how it will affect my mum.
My dead father is haunting me
I am writing to you for help with one of life’s problems. I am a recent convert to Islam and I am ashamed to ask my local Imam for help. I was an only child and I lived with both my parents, while my mother wanted me and demonstrated this through love and attention, my father was a different story (he died nearly 20 years ago).
My mother is cheating on my father with his friend
Since I was a little girl, I remember my mother was cheating on my father with a relative but Alahmdullilah she’s a little over that. However, she is talking to one of the friend of my father. I am positive that she does the same thing with this man that she used to do with that relative. I am very disappointed and I do not know what to do? My father is also not a good father or husband and has done bad things in his life but it was in the past but he does swear a lot. I have no idea how to deal with this situation as if I talk to my mother, she yells and breaks things.
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