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Father and brother beat me and my mother

I need help, I have visited this website numerous times to seek advice that may apply to me. However, I feel that writing to you all will be a better alternative for me. Any advice will be highly appreciated. Jazakallah. I apologize for the long post in advance..

Boyfriend threatens to expose our relationship to my parents; ruin my life and career.

Within one month of knowing each other, we got together as courting couple. It was my first time. It was him who wanted, and I was reluctant at the start, but followed him. Between me and him, we had already started to talk about settling down next year. He likes to threaten me, saying that he will meet my parents and blurt out everything about what we have done. e also said that he will ruin my career and will create havoc at my workplace. I feel like, all these are happening because I didn’t take care of myself well; I caused shame to my parents I did what they forbid us to do.

Am I divorced? Am I gonna be punished for divorcing my husband?

While we were both very excited about the pregnancy, he asked me to stay home from work because my job was very physical. I loved my husband so much that I waited 14 months for him to be released. While he was in jail, I got an apartment and took care of all the bills, my 2 children. I got a call from my doctor saying that; I had contracted Chlamydia. I begged him to stop and he said he will. Two weeks later they were still talking and they were even in contact with each other while we were at an Islamic conference together for the weekend.

Been intimate with my girlfriend but her family refused me as Istikhaarah is negative

My situation is very complicating.I am a Guy and i have beeen into this girl since last 3 years.. she has been my girlfriend since then and we have been going out steadIly. I am the only guy who she has ever spoken to and the only guy who has ever touch her. we had intimate relation…

Jealous of his past and his present

I tried so much to control my jealousy, but it always comes up in any form.

My mother is cheating on my father with his friend

Since I was a little girl, I remember my mother was cheating on my father with a relative but Alahmdullilah she’s a little over that. However, she is talking to one of the friend of my father. I am positive that she does the same thing with this man that she used to do with that relative. I am very disappointed and I do not know what to do? My father is also not a good father or husband and has done bad things in his life but it was in the past but he does swear a lot. I have no idea how to deal with this situation as if I talk to my mother, she yells and breaks things.

Pre-marital sex! Am I allowed to marry her?

I am Muslim and had sex with my girlfriend. She was a virgin. I really regret doing that and I am still asking for forgiveness from Allah (swt). We are getting married next year and I wish to know if, I am islamically allowed to marry her? Please tell me; what are the complications?

Living with a non-Muslim man who promised to convert to Islam before marriage.

I have been living with a non-Muslim man for a year now who I am engaged. He promised to become Muslim once we get married. He is learning about Islam little by little but I feel he will never do that for all the right reasons.

My husband had cyber sex with 5 other women and I don’t know what to do?

I got married to my boyfriend and I love him to bits but I have come to know that he has been cheating on me with 5 other women who he was having cybersex. I knew all this before marriage and he promised me that he stopped one month before our marriage but he lied to me.

Can’t trust my husband after I found emails to other women

I found out and confronted my husband about what appears to be an emotional involvement via email, with a woman he met on a flight. The back and forth seemed like a prelude to something more physical but I could make out, that despite his entreaties, the woman had not taken the ‘affair’ to the next level…