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I would rather choose to die than live without him.

I am a hindu girl and I am in love with a muslim boy for nearly 4 years. My parents are dead. His father’s health is bad now and he is really strict and stubborn, he can’t accept me. From the beginning, I am ready to become a muslim by conversion..

My parents rejected the boy I love because of his looks and financial status

I’m in love with this practising muslim boy but my parents would not accept him because they think he’s not good enough for me in terms of looks and his financial status. I’m truly in love with him and wish my parents would see that.

I need to get on Allah’s good side and at the same time as holding on to the love of my life

Initially i didn’t mind holding his hand because i did it even in front of my parents and although they are very strict they never said anything but slowly it grew into more and we committed some heinous deeds.

In love but I have doubts in my heart

I’m in love with someone…want to marry him, but family does not like him, I like him, but a doubt has developed in my heart saying should i go for that marriage or not.. is it suitable 4 me?

Isthikhara on love before marriage

I’ve been asking questions and cant seem to find an answer which is simple. I’ve known this guy for about nearly 3 years and through out those years i’ve always explained to him that i didnt want to be a part of a relationship before marriage and that if we loved each other we wouldnt take one another to hell. It is because of me that he started praying and that he said i made him a better person as i lead him the right way.

I took my girlfriend’s virginity, now she’s getting married to another guy.

Please excuse my grammar and misspelling english is not my first language. I come from a Christian family, but I was never very religious at all, like the average western teen all I care about was girls, parties living a reckless life. About 4 years ago I met a tajik girl at work, at first we where coworkers, then friends and it turned into a relationship with out the approval of her father and mother.

Is there any way I can emotionally force my boyfriend to come back to me?

He promised me he would marry me and look after me as long as i left the guy i was engaged to. I did it coz i trusted him. With all my fault as time went along things started changing and things were going bad. I got pregnant from him and I got rid of it coz at that time I was too scared to keep it as things were not right at home or with the guy.

How do I get past my cultural/religious grudges?

I met a Norwegian girl and fell in love. But I don’t know how to get over our cultural clashes, and the fact that she is not Muslim, and is Norwegian. I feel lost and need help figuring things out.

Can I marry her?

We are six in my family including my Dad and Mum making it eight. I am the First Son of my Dad and Fourth child in my family, there is three girls. Ahead of me and two boys after me, making it six.

I’m in love with someone but lost him due to my lying & insecurities

I have been with someone the past year. overall i was not good to them. i lied to them a massive amount. i have come to realise i have a problem with lying. i don’t know if i’m a compulsive liar or why i do it but i lie. he was the first person i actually admit all my faults and flaws to, this is the second time i’m openly admitting that yes maybe i’m a compulsive liar. and it’s very hard and sad and hurtful for me to say it. i am but i want to change.