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Should I have sex with a man I’m only with for citizenship?

We do not have our legal papers in the United States, so we paid for arranged marriage. I was now legally divorced in the States with my main husband but we still lived together and the whole family understands we were only divorced for papers.

Nervous about intimacy

I will be getting married soon. I’m quite worried as I don’t know what my rights and responsibilities are in terms of intimacy. I don’t know what his rights and responsibilities are.

Will angels curse me if I refuse my husband oral / anal sex?

I don’t like these acts and have made it clear to him… Now he is angry with me.

I feel no emotional or physical attraction to men, but my family is pressuring me to get married. Should I get married, or should I refuse?

I wouldn’t mind getting married as long as my husband kept his distance from me, eg. we slept in different beds, he didn’t touch me too much, and we didn’t have intercourse except very rarely. But I don’t think any man would agree to this.