Tag Archive for ‘Islamic Answers 2011’
Muslim mother having intercourse before marriage
salaam… I am a young muslim and by far not the best I could be! I was born out of wedlock… My mother converted into Islam when she fell pregnant with me(I’ve been told). My mother and father split up when I was only young and my mum has been single ever since. There is […]
Should I Divorce my Husband because he won’t leave the past alone?
He has told me that he’s going to make sure living with him isn’t easy, because he “won’t be fooled again,” and also that I will be obligated to maintain myself financially. He won’t trust me until I have gone through med school with him (though he’s not anywhere near going himself)….or should I divorce him and stay in my own home, continue on my path and eventually remarry?
Will Allah (swt) forgive me for my past sins and what should I do to get married to the girl I want?
Is there any specific thing to do so that Allah swt forgives the sins I have committed before. I and my girl asked sorry to my ex-girl many times she told that she accepted my sorry but not my gal’s sorry she won’t forgive her. In that case wat does she do now to escape from Allah’s punishment?
Do saints really posses people’s body and tell them solution to their problems?
I am totally confuse now; my question is; does saints really posses any person’s body and say things as such if it’s true. Why these saints don’t know the sexual abuse I underwent from my grand dad and the trauma and fear I am having in my mind now. Why these saints can’t show my mom the depression and fear I am undergoing.
Can we both get married?
He cried to his mother and explained our situation and she wanted us to get married and so said she would ask her family sheikh for guidance. Is it haram for us to get married? What is the right way to go about this situation?
Has anyone else been through this same thing?
I need help as I don’t have any family around who can help me.
Can you help and tell me what should I do. Remember , he does not talk to me as if I made a mistake by finding out . The other thing, if I leave him , my youngest son will suffer financially as I do not have any savings and I will have to start from scratch.
My fiance cheated on me; should i marry him?
I have been with my fiance for over 3 years now and we got engaged at the end of last year. I found out 5/6 months ago that he had cheated on me with a non-Muslim who then wouldn’t leave him alone and statrted playing games with him. My mum had agreed for me to marry him initially however now disagrees with this. She has said on many occasions she has had signs even in her sleep that this guy is not right for me and wants me to just move on from him. His parents have also from day 1 tried picking at things and constantly trying to lecture me on what to do and I feel that this will happen more if I was to get married to him. I am so confused as I don’t know what to do?
What is the Islamic solution to my situation? Is khula/divorce the right choice?
I have been married for 8 years and I have 2 children. The relationship between me and my husband has gone through a lot of bad times. The current situation is that for the past 8 months we have been sleeping in different bedrooms. During this time things between us have gone from bad to worse and now for the past 4 months there have been no physical relations between us. He too did not initiate anything as he was also in anger and was not interested in doing so. We had not been communicating on normal mode either. I have spoken to him some time ago that its all over from my side and that I do not wish to live with him anymore due all these prevailing conditions, as there is no point living together when we just cant stand each others’ existence in the same house.
I am confused as he says; he loves me yet doesn’t want to dissolve his marriage.
I was introduced to a boy as we were both in a stage of looking for marriage. Whilst I got to know him we both developed feelings for each other and wanting to marry one another. So, when my other half found out he was fuming and said I could not be trusted. He then looked at another proposal his parents arranged for him and told me he was still in love with me. Thereafter, our relationship was going downhill and after a month of our mending of relationship I heard he is marrying another girl! He calls me and tells me he loves me and made a hasty decision out of confusion!
Unfortunately, I am divorcing my 2nd wife due to my own problems
I married my first wife in 2002, she married secretly and was reverted from Hinduism. We had 2 children and I messed up and ended-up in jail for a year. I took my kids with me to Bangladesh and I got married to my first cousin and she came after appeal against the UK government’s refusal of her visa. In arguments my wife wasn’t happy with my intention to marry another girl. She walked out with the baby, I was heartbroken. I broke up with the new girl; I didn’t realize how much I loved my wife.
Entries(RSS)