Tag Archive for ‘Lost and confused’
I am lost; should I marry him despite he cheated on me in the past?
i think i do want to be with him but the proper way. iA i have started to pray n read the Quran daily iA. i am trying to make it up to my family by studying and being a good muslim iA. im still confused n sometimes i cant concentrate, i fear that i will end up back in square one if i continue talking to him.
Just want to be a normal man & what is the actual meaning of Eid-ul-Adha?
It may be right or wrong I don’t know, our destiny is written and everything happens on that time. But its enough for me try to make happy others and I also know that this thing is come from Allah SWT. Hence I don’t do anything for any one to be happy. And I want only I have to be happy like a small baby, when he wants chocolate and when he get then he would be happy and if he never get then he cry and few days later he wants something else and when he got this then happy otherwise tense not thing about past what he did not get (Chocolate).
In search for peace and guidance
i had doubts because he does not pray regularly, I had doubts because he had many female friends, I had doubts because he always emphasized on western dressing ..he tried getting physical everytime we met..i started istikhara again and this time on the third day I got a disturbing dream but again on the fourth day I got a dream where I was happy.
Muslim parents and a pregnant non-Muslim wife.
I need to know what Islam has to say about my situation given that my parents only hated the girl because she was a non-muslim and because they were concerned about their image among the people of the community. I was happy with my wife and the fact that she was pregnant and I was very motivated and positive about life and now everything is just dark and I just want to end my life to put an end to my suffering
To love husband or not?
if her husband want her love back or want her to love him again madly as she did, then what should she do? she dont want to love him now, she only want to love Allah. (as she will not ever stop giving his rights to him except love.)
Please help me decide what to do?
I adore this man and pray that Allah helps me accept what is his right, but I honestly do not know if I will be able to let him touch me is he has been intimate with her. I do not want to be hurt and have my heart broken so I do not know if I should start to distance myself from him to try to protect myself. I don’t want to lose him, but it is also not fair to him if I can not be the wife he needs me to be.
I might have ruptured my hymen and I am worried what my husband would think.
i have not done anything wrong for my hymen to be broken, however, my future husband would probably never ever believe me, as we have issues within our relationship anyway and he may explode at me – at least at the start of our marriage, because of this hymen issue – and im scared of that happening.
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