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My new husband is unfaithful and manipulative, don’t know what to do

My suspicions got the better of me one night and i ended up checking his phone. I found that he was talking to several other women and making plans to meet up with them.

Father is betraying

He is physically and emotionally abusing me and my family is not supporting me.

Do I stay and break up my family or go and risk everything?

I met his family at the wedding. I only realised what a mistake I had made when I was around them.

Am I divorced?

Now that I am interested in remarrying my ex-husband is suddenly claiming that we are still married.

I am just fed up of what is happening in my life…

He spoils my reputation and my career, no one believes in my words they just believes in his fake pictures, university authorities decided to cancel my degree. I am helpless and I dont know why this is happening to me.

How can I forgive myself?

I feel I should be stoned to death. I cannot live like this, I’m dying every minute.

Should I marry my cousin? Who’s not at all compatible and neither a nice person?

He went back to Pakistan and started again his life with Guns and Pistols… I deserve much better person than him and even my mother knows that, than how can she expect me to marry him?

Is my nikah valid?

He went prison, got another girlfriend. I do not wish to be with him and want to move on with my life but he is using this against me and manipulating me.

The guy I love wants sex before marriage

I was heartbroken when he said that he wants to leave me because now that I have been physical with him I feel like I must marry him and I belong to him. So I cried and begged him to be with me and promised I won’t ever interfere in his bad habits like drinking, cursing, smoking or sleeping with other girls.

Was he just using me all this while?

He told me his parents would never allow him to marry a girl who was not a muslim by birth. Now he says that he wants to break up for two years and during those two years I should convert to Islam and become a practising muslim girl.