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They brought me a proposal, then withdrew it saying an Istikharah turned out negative

I am muslim female looking to get married sometime soon. Cutting the long story short; I recently got a proposal and I really liked the guy. The guys family all really liked me so they gave the proposal. His family said that he liked me and I was the first girl he agreed to.

Can I Marry my First Cousin?

Are there very high chances of abnormality? It’s a family proposal for me; I am also attracted to her, so is she. Their is no problem from both families but I am worried about medical issues which may arise.

I didn’t want to get engaged but was forced to for materialistic reasons.

Now, I am engaged to this man but I keep thinking about other man who I had relationships. I know that my parents knew about both guys and they have chosen the better one for me but if that’s the case then why is it so difficult to move on. What do you all think; please advise me.

My father has refused my hand in marriage to a practising brother of good character.

I am aware that a woman cannot marry without a wali and the wali does not need to be her father, but I do not want to enter a marriage without my father but I do not want to give up and ignore what Allah has led me to feel about my decision.

Is this indication from Allah?

I didn’t find any explanation why out of blue I have started to think about Y. Is it because Allah has diverted my mind to him and indicates that he is the right guy for me? As only Allah is the one who knows what is best for me, so just started to think about Y without any clue. What should I do now?

He was a bad guy, wants to marry me.

I´m stuck in a situation where I don´t know what to do..I really want someone to tell me some logical stuff and guide me before I get myself in a unwanted situation. I don´t want to ruin my life and so I am scared but love him at the same time..

Feel positive after Istikhara.

Someone from my family has come proposing for me, but my parents aren’t that happy because they think he is not that religious. I have heard from people that he is changing and wants to be religious but….

I want her to fall in love with me in a halal way

I am a true Muslim and maintain strong connection with my country. She is a Korean and a very devoted Christian. ….If I give her a marriage proposal like a business meeting, I will look like an idiot. If I date her, I am doing something against my religion,…

I committed a great sin & feel dirty, hopeless & betrayed

I stumbled across this website in my desperation to find a solution to my problem and for some much needed advice. As I am typing this, I am realising how much stronger I have become in my personality, prior to this for the last two months I have been in agony, constantly crying, no sleep, and falling behind in all my duties. Just a little about myself, I am a 24 year old well educated girl, with a very successful career.I have had a fulfilling life, and come from a very caring and stable family. I always strive to better myself in my faith, often going on pilgrimage to makkah.

I really want this proposal to work out, I deserve it

I had a good proposal and I want it to work because I deserve it as I am religious. But his parents will not give me any response. I really want this proposal to work out and I am constantly praying to Allah that this proposal works out for me because I feel that I deserve this good alliance as I am a very religious girl. Never had boyfriends in my life and a God fearing girl.