Islamic marriage advice and family advice

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Married without her parents consent!

I have spoken to her brother and he said they will get her married to someone else without getting a divorce from her husband. In their eyes I am not her husband as they have not accepted our marriage.

Advice about how to handle wife’s past

Sometimes I feel weak because of her past and my male ego gets very hurt… If she was married before, but never committed any unlawful deeds such as premarital sex it would be much easier for me to handle.

Is our marriage valid without physical intimacy?

He says he is disturbed and he doesn’t feel like being in physical relationship with me. Is it permissible for a married couple to live like this?

We are separated – now what?

He says he does not want a divorce and that he does not take it lightly, yet he mentions he is going to get his own house and wants the kids to sleep over some days. This honestly doesn’t make sense to me.

Is it allowed for me to have to stay with my inlaws?

My husband decided that I will stay with his family in this time period. His family is a joint family system, so all the brothers and their wives are living together… I am not feeling comfortable and I heard it’s not permitted in Islam…

Should I divorce her?

My wife has never respected me and abuses my mother also. Should I divorce her?

Married man having desire to chat with other women

I have this strange desire to talk with girls, and this problem went on even before my marriage. I would normally talk for 2, 3 weeks, (it may include love talk also) then I would tell the girl I am married and stop replying to her messages.

Troubled… who should I choose?

My parents said if I wanted to have any relationship with them I would have to divorce my wife. If I choose my parents I lose my wife – if I choose my wife I lose my parents.

How do I get out of this and back to happy married life?

After 6 months of marriage I got to know about his two ongoing affairs… he said he did this all because he wanted to hurt me, give me the similar kind of pain which I gave him.

Just found out I’m married, but I don’t even know the man!

I found out last year that I am married. I did not attend any ceremony; I did not even know the man.