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Regular wet dream about my mother and touching her

One night when my mom was on sleeping pills I did something wrong with my mom that she still doesn’t know about. At that time she was 5 months pregnant, but I didn’t have sex with her. The next day I repented a lot and promised not to do anything like that again. Since then I have lost my sleep, and I am having the wet dreams.

Conflict with my mother – what should I do?

She wants me to control my husband, I refused and she cursed me.I came back to ask forgiveness but she cursed me to hell. I cried and had a miscarriage that same day.

I have different ideals than my family

I am not talking to my mother, I don’t feel happy in the house and I want to get out. I have different ideals than my family.

My mother wants me to divorce my wife

My mother is asking me to give talaq to my wife for the sake of God. I don’t know what to do.

Sister in Law – Mother in Law Problems

My SIL got married after me and still lives with us. She does not go to her husband’s place because she can’t adjust over there. I have two daughters Allhamdullilah, and she has a daughter and now just gave birth to a son which has created a rift between me and my MIL.

My emotionally dependent mom gives me no breathing space

I am from a sub-continental family. My mom has been married to my father for close to 30 years. My father was emotionally insensitive towards my mom. Like he never gave much attention..

I feel like I’ve lost everything and I don’t know what to do.

I don’t know where to start, but I just need some advice. What to do if your parent’s won’t accept the guy that you want to marry because of different race, culture? But we’re both muslims, shouldn’t that be the most important thing? To be fair my mum did talk to him, but it still doesn’t work. I’m tired of praying it will work out, I left everything in Allah’s hands but ya Allah if he’s not the one for me, why is it impossible to stop thinking of him?

Constant bad dua from my mother

I have a recurring problem at home. My mother constantly gives baddua. It is very depressing. She will give baddua over everything. If I forget to flush the toilet, baddua. If I forget to clean up my room, baddua. If I text someone from my phone, baddua. If I wake up late, baddua. If I agree with my brother on converting a girl to Islam and marrying her…. baddua. (BTW she hasn’t spoken to him in over 2 years) I think you get the point.

Too worried for my future

I am 14 years old muslim girl, I really want to get a good answers and find somebody who can answer to my (shameful) questions. Let me begin my story. I am really shy girl, just like my mom. My mom and I never talk about sex and stuff like that. I think it’s because we both are really shy to talk about it. However I always had questions that I can’t ask my mom. (I don’t have any sisters, just younger brothers).

Our mother wants to meet us now after 17 years apart

We were with our father and my father died 12 years ago. Now my mother? wants to meet us. So what should be our stand according to Islam…