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My controlling mother dictates what I must wear

I am living in my own home but very close to my parents after the breakdown of my marriage. I visit my parents frequently and understand the importance of listening and obeying parents…

In love with a hindu girl

I am loving to hindu girl and I wanted to marry her and she is ready to accept islam. But I am fearing to tell my parents ie., my only my mom.

I have to choose between my mother and the guy I love

I badly need your advise on a very urgent matter. I am 45 years old and still unmarried working as a lecturer in a university, my father died in my childhood and my only brother who was 16 years older than me died 3 years back, mother is very old and she is also suffering from arthiritus..

Wife wants a separate house, having conflicts with my parents

My wedding is three plus years old. I have two children. My Wife had some issue with my Mom on simple talks which we men don’t take it seriously but they do. She has left me and has gone to her parents and now demanding separate house. But i cannot leave my parents as there is no one to take care of them and they are in old age too. My two elder brothers are abroad so i have a big responsibility now.

I was forced to get married by my mother!

However, my smile turned upside down when my mum took me and brother’s passport away and said we weren’t going back to the UK. As you can imagine, I was devastated. I still had another year in secondary school; also I recently got through an audition for a charity theatre company. As a result, I became angry at my mum for the first time!

My mother is cheating on my father with his friend

Since I was a little girl, I remember my mother was cheating on my father with a relative but Alahmdullilah she’s a little over that. However, she is talking to one of the friend of my father. I am positive that she does the same thing with this man that she used to do with that relative. I am very disappointed and I do not know what to do? My father is also not a good father or husband and has done bad things in his life but it was in the past but he does swear a lot. I have no idea how to deal with this situation as if I talk to my mother, she yells and breaks things.

The caste system is interfering with my choice of wife!

I have a problem plz give me a suggestion what should I do. I love a girl so much, i want to marry her as well as such i love her truely since last 3 years & she also wants to marry me but our parents are not accepting her because she belongs to dofferent cast & I belong to a different cast, my mother knows her very well she liked her but the moment i told her that she loves me alot & i love her too my mother refused…

Muslim Father, Catholic Mother, who decides religion of baby?

If a baby is born to a Muslim father and Catholic mother, and the parents are not married under UK law, who has the legal right to decide the baby’s religion? I know the baby is Muslim by birth, but mother wants to get the baby christened.

Religious father has turned to porn and prostitutes

My father, who went to Hajj four years ago and prays regularly, lost his job. Since then he seems to have turned to porn and prostitutes. I don’t know how to talk to him.

We chatted online and he fell in love with me

I met this boy in a chatroom 6 months ago. We started to appreciate each other. We can’t meet cause we aren’t in the same country. He’s Black and im Arab which doesn’t ease things. And now he likes me alot and want to marry me.