Islamic marriage advice and family advice

Tag Archive for ‘No attraction’

Marrrying a guy I don’t like

He’s just not the guy I wanted or expected to marry in terms of looks. My heart doesn’t feel right.

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Divorce or what? I am suffering every day.

I dont have love for my wife mainly because she is chubby/fat and she has almost no sex drive.

Arranged Marriage and Parent’s pressure

I think he is marrying me solely for my greencard. His American visa is expiring in September and wants to marry someone before he get deported.

Not attracted to fiancee…

If I cancel the marriage it will put a lot of shame on my family but if I go through with it I will maybe be miserable forever.

No intimacy with wife

We have been intimate during the pregnancy but she was the one who initiated it. I have been very close to her during the pregnancy but not affectionate enough.

Is attraction necessary?

There’s just something about the guy I just can’t stand. It makes me so scared the thought of spending my whole life with someone I’m so repulsed by. Should I go ahead with this marriage?

Depressed Married Life

Though we have everything stable in our lives, I do not have the peace of mind when I am with my wife.

I trusted Allah completely and he broke my trust

I’m getting married and I don’t have any feelings for my husband-to-be.

Please, please help…

I am depressed about my engagement/nikkah nor am I attracted to him. I feel helpless.

Not attracted to husband

Ever since I got pregnant my intimacy has disappeared to the point where I can’t even kiss my husband