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They deny him for my sister and don’t give a valid reason

I feel my sister took all the right steps. But nothing changed. Eventually years passed and my sister was introduced to someone, she told my parents immediately, and asked them to proceed with this person further in any way they want. She wasn’t pressurising them in anyway in fact she gave them before and after this situation a lot of time. My parents did nothing as usual and hoped my sister would forget about it and leave the situation.

His parents won’t let him marry me, I’m at my wit’s end

I keep crying and praying to Allah to make them change their minds. Or to make me forget and heal. But my heart and mind both seem set on not giving up on this. I believe in my heart of hearts, that his parents have just misunderstood the entire situation and because of the aalim not being honest with them about it not being validated to perform Istikhara for others has made everything much more complex.

How should I break up from my boyfriend?

I’ve been with my boyfriend for about 2 yr and 4 months and he comes from a good muslim family and he does care about me. He’s told me its better not to talk in the past so that i could head in the straight path. Recently ive been waking up to myself realizing what ive done is haram and this whole relationship is against Islam.

He is becoming distant but says that he will fulfill his promise of marriage; what should I do?

But he still says that he keeps his word to marry her and he just asks her to understand his recent situation which is not explained clearly. The communication is rarely done due to his busy time as an excuse and both of them live between miles away.

Love, Life and The Spirituality of Eternal Islam.

I hope I am making sense and would really appreciate some feedback on this matter as I believe there are hundreds of similar stories out there! May Allah protect us all. We are ALL, whether Muslim or not, looking for the same answer to life: Why are we here? What happens after death? How can I strive for happiness? May Allah help us all inshaAllah.

How do i get rid of guilt?

I am really on the verge of a nervous breakdown. I am 21 yrs old. I live in UK. I am a pious muslimah. MashaAllah I pray five times, fast during ramadhan, wear hijab and try to stay away from haram things…

How do I propose him?

I recently visited family and got to know about this person who is unmarried and not interested in anyone. He is in-law to my aunty, I don’t know if I should contact him. He is a good practising Muslim and from good family. If I should contact him, then is text message a better way to contact as he isn’t in my city.

My life is messed up; please help me to make the right decision.

He loves me too I know that; the problem with me is that I love him a lot and cannot think about anyone else other than but I am ignoring him and making dua to Allah to help me. What should I do? I have problems in my life I cannot go and marry just someone else and also I have tried to but I cannot help thinking about him and cry and praying all the time.

My fiance cheated on me; should i marry him?

I have been with my fiance for over 3 years now and we got engaged at the end of last year. I found out 5/6 months ago that he had cheated on me with a non-Muslim who then wouldn’t leave him alone and statrted playing games with him. My mum had agreed for me to marry him initially however now disagrees with this. She has said on many occasions she has had signs even in her sleep that this guy is not right for me and wants me to just move on from him. His parents have also from day 1 tried picking at things and constantly trying to lecture me on what to do and I feel that this will happen more if I was to get married to him. I am so confused as I don’t know what to do?

I am confused as he says; he loves me yet doesn’t want to dissolve his marriage.

I was introduced to a boy as we were both in a stage of looking for marriage. Whilst I got to know him we both developed feelings for each other and wanting to marry one another. So, when my other half found out he was fuming and said I could not be trusted. He then looked at another proposal his parents arranged for him and told me he was still in love with me. Thereafter, our relationship was going downhill and after a month of our mending of relationship I heard he is marrying another girl! He calls me and tells me he loves me and made a hasty decision out of confusion!