Islamic marriage advice and family advice

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Parents or boyfriend; my happiness or parent’s happiness, pride and face saving?

I dono wt to nw.. I feel so alone n sad wen i dont talk to him evn 4 a day . Hees more sensitive dan meee..
Wt to do nw….To either stick wd him or marry d one of my parents wish? I am so heart broken..
Cn i evr lead a happy married life with someone else??.. He says he shal nevr marry in his life.. Iam so scared.. Pls tel me wt to do?? My thoughts have no end…

His father wont accept me, what can we do?

When he asked his father the reason for this, his father eplained to him that although i am a muslim i come from a mixed background (mother is english,father is indian) and i cannot speak thier language (gujurati) and so how would this marraige work as i wouldnt be able to communicate with his mother and some of the extended family.

I hate my life…

I hate myself and my life, if it wasn’t for the fact that my parents would probably not like it if I committed suicide I would do it. I’m living in a Hell on Earth where bad people/Muslims get rewarded by Allah.

Boyfriend has converted to Islam but parents still disagree; what to do?

I say it doesn’t matter, he’s the only boy that loves me for who I am and seems genuine despite putting him through so many hard situations and having other chances with many girls. If the man is kind-hearted and genuine, it doesn’t matter where he’s from or originated.

I want to marry him but his grandmother is against it because I am Pakistani

At his siblings wedding his grandmother somehow was told that her grandson wants to marry a Pakistani. She was very angry about this and had clearly told her grandson that he should forget about me, and she will not allow him to marry a Pakistani girl under any circumstances.

I’m willing to convert to Islam for ‘us’, but his parents will not accept me because I am ‘white’!

I have been with my Muslim boyfriend for 2 years now. Although not a very long time, we are both very happy with one another and often talk about our life together in the future. I’m a white, non-muslim woman and he is a Pakistani Muslim. I’ve been warned about mixed race relationships, but I honestly have no idea what the fuss is about as I’ve been very happy with him and he treats me like an absolute Princess.

Her parents do not want her to marry me because I am a convert Muslim

I cant let the girl go because I believe I’m meant to be with her, she fears her parents will disown her for she marries me and I dont know what to do, is there any way around this?

I want to marry him but his parents don’t agree because I am convert with a child

I even beg him to persuade his parents again and he said he cannot. Knowing the fact that I did everything just to persuade my parents how come he cannot do?

I feel as though I am suffocating in my own home.

It’s just when I think about my relationship with my mum, I feel sad, I feel as though anger going against what Allah swt and I become frightened. My sisters have no respect for me, even when I point this out to my mum she doesn’t say or do anything.

How can I convince my parents to let me marry this good Muslim man?

I’m 19 years old college girl. I have met this guy on a social website. I wasn’t planning to make a relationship with him or something, he was just asking me about Islam and to explain some verses for him. He is a good muslim religious person. After a while, he asked me to marry him because he wants to have islamic family not affected by the American culture, he said I’ll come to ur parents and propose according to the islamic civility and I’ll do whatever they want just to show them that I’m a good person who deserves their daughter and I totally agreed.