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Betrayed and cheated but i still love him

Im seeking help and advice i been with this guy for 3 1/2 years, we been through so many problems and still together.Our ups and down we stick together but year 2010 month of May I feel something going wrong. I have so many speculation and feeling that he was cheating on me.I found so many hints and so many marks that lead me finding the truth but since i love him so much and we on the process of settling down i just keep those things as nothing and im trying to convinced myself that he still be loyal and honest to me that he will not do such thing to me.

Unsure of what action to take over mother’s adultery

I am a simple 28yrs old woman. I have my own family, a caring husband and 2 sons. I am happily living with them in Bangkok. But it has come out that my mother had an adulterous affair, and it may destroy her.

Is there a halal relationship without a wedding?

Is there a way that they can make it halal being together just between the both of them and Allah as their witness in their own privacy?

Concerned about my daughter’s conversion

Last year my teenage daughter met this man while we were living in Hong Kong. He is from India. He lied about being a bit older than her. He’s actually 28 and married (he married a 14 year old child 5 years ago in Kolkata).

I was guilty and repented, so how much should I reveal to my future husband?

A few years ago I was engaged to a man of bad character (he used to go the clubs) and was forced to be in an engagement with him. We talked on the phone only, but later on we started to talk about inappropriate things and one thing led to another. Now that I have a potential proposal, the potential person’s family and the man himself is asking me whether I was/ had been in such a relationship.

I’ve been in a relationship for 6 years, but my father has threatened to kill me if I choose my own husband.

I would like to begin this query by asking Almighty Allah to forgive me for all that I have done. In some way I know I may not have done the right thing but I don’t know what is right or wrong anymore. I live in a family where, for me it has been a nightmare. I know Islam tells you to respect your parents but what my family has done with me I cannot respect my parents.

Being betrayed after 5 years but I still love her and want her back

I have been in a haram relationship for the past 5 years and have fallen madly in love with this person. We talked about getting married and i didnt want to have a haram relationship or commit anymore sins. Just as I was preparing and thinking of how to approach her family with her hand in marriage, I found out she has been cheating on me.

Isthikhara on love before marriage

I’ve been asking questions and cant seem to find an answer which is simple. I’ve known this guy for about nearly 3 years and through out those years i’ve always explained to him that i didnt want to be a part of a relationship before marriage and that if we loved each other we wouldnt take one another to hell. It is because of me that he started praying and that he said i made him a better person as i lead him the right way.

Hijab and relationship with fiance as a Muslimah living in Eastern Europe

I am a Muslim sister recently gave up a lot of things to ask ALLAH for forgiveness and to follow unto that path, unfortunately two things stand on my way, the first being Hijab. Where i live, which is in Eastern Europe, islam is not regarded very well and in general any one seen with a scarf is discriminated against in every possible way that is if not attacked.

I’m Muslim, he’s Christian & we are in love, but do not know how to work the religious difference

I am a muslim girl and my boyfriend is a Christian.

We are madly in love, but we do not know how to work the religious difference and we really dont want to part because we are willing to take the relationship further.

What should I do?