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Should I tell my first wife about my secret second wife?

My youngest son says that as a Muslim man, truth is incumbent upon me and I cannot lie to my first wife. I love both my sons and do not want to lose their respect but which son do I listen to?

I did a secret Nikah over the phone

I married a guy without thinking it through, and now regret it.

Secret nikah first, then renew it publicly?

Can we get married secretly? Then, when our parents decide the date we renew the nikah? Cause it’s now a year and they are still postponing.

I don’t have a Wali and my mother is haunted by Jinns

We want to get nikkah without telling our parents. And when he has a career after his degree), then we would approach our parents for a proper marriage.

We want to get physical but our marriage is 3 years away!

My fiancé and I want to become physical but our marriage is 3 years away. Can we do a secret marriage?

Cannot contact her family, can she marry me?

She cannot go back to country,  met her family and can’t communicate because of some political issues. It’s also impossible for me to meet her family or communicate about marriage (take their permission).

I want to become his second wife, but not publicly

The man I wish to marry is someone I know. He is married. I am not asking for public recognition, rather we have a private nikaah with a small number of people.

I’m his secret second wife, and I want out!

I’m probably very selfish, but I do not accept his wife…I can’t accept her. Why? I’m born in Europe, from a Christian family, and as you know we don’t accept many wives. I’m not ready to accept her, and I will never be. I don’t see her as a sister. I’m depressed, I cry a lot, and I cant stand this situation any more.

Should I go against my father a second time?

My father was fine, however due to people who would like me to marry their own son causing fitna, my dad is now totally against this union. Therefore I feel stuck – please, please, please tell me where I stand in terms of not listening to my father?

My husband is committing zina with the same woman before and after our marriage

After 1 year and 5 months of being engaged, we finally got married February 2016. Everything went well at first. However, I am slowly learning that there are things that was wrong. I was never introduced to his family.