Tag Archive for ‘sexual intercourse’
I got khula from court against my husband but my family is forcing me to live with him. Is my khula valid?
I got married in march 2007 to my maternal cousin. This was a forced marriage as I didn’t want to get married. But my parents emotionally blackmailed me, my husband, his mother and my mother promised me that he won’t demand any physical relation until I complete my education. I agreed on this base. I was abused sexually, physically and psychologically by my husband and my parents. I asked my husband to divorce me but he refused. Before seeking khula I spoke to my husband and told him that I cannot fulfill his sexual needs as hatred fills within me whenever I see him and all the issues between us and requested him to divorce me.
My husband cheated on me but I don’t know how to deal with this situation. What are my options?
A week ago I walked through the doors of my home to find my husband in bed with another woman. Apparently she had no idea that he was married, and I know this because I saw the messages that he sent to her. He said he has made Tawbah but I am unsure of his sincerity. He seems to be genuine, but this is not the first incident that we have had; this is just the first time that he had gotten caught in the act. I asked for his reasoning for being defensive but he didn’t reply. All he keeps saying is; I am sorry. I am so confused as to what to do.
Am I in an haram relationship?
I have been with my Muslim boyfriend for 6 years now and we were having sexual relations for about 5 years. Since this discussion a year has passed and now I have reverted to Islam, which I am very happy and proud about. I know that this is obviously haram as Allah does not permit any form of relationship between the opposite of sex till marriage, and if it was down to me I would marry him in a heart beat. But here is where it gets complicated because he says that he will marry me but not until he finishes his degree and/or if I get a good job.
I want to get married but my parents think it’s too early for me. Please help me.
I really want to have someone in my life, a real muslimah that fears Allah and is a practicing muslim and serious about her deen. Im not seeing anyone or doing anything illegal that is out of the boundaries set by Allah. The problem is that my parents think it’s to early for me to get married, however they have agreed to trying to find me a suitable wife, but sometimes I just feel that I am burdening them with this request and that they find it hard to happen and a bit annoying. I have stopped asking my parents over this issue and I have totally left it to Allah and his will, and told myself that Whenever Allah wants,it will surely happen.
My wife committed adultery; what should I do?
A Pakistani Muslim man married a Filipino lady in UK about 2 years ago. She embraced Islam at the time of Nikah. Life went on as usual. After 1 year of marriage, Husband visa refused, and he came back to Pakistan. After 6 month, husband received a call from a Filipino man that he had sexual relationship with his wife. Pakistani man confirmed from his wife, she confessed adultery. Now the wife has confessed that she committed adultery, She is not very much repenting and even she is not practising Muslim; she drink wine occasionally; attending Christening parties. She is ready to accept any decision that the husband makes but is also seeking forgiveness.
I keep thinking about abortion due to my cheating with this other man while married to my husband.
Earlier this year, I made the biggest mistake of committing adultary. I was married at the time to my husband and had been married to him for over a year. I told him what I had done and asked for forgiveness from him and from Allah (swt) and my husband had forgiven me and has accepted all of this. My feelings are very confused for this baby as I wanted a baby with my husband and wanted to settle down, I know this baby is my husband’s 98%. When I was intimate with this other man we used protection, thus too makes it impossible for him to be the biological father of the child.
Question about marriage and conversion to Islam to become a good Muslim husband and father.
Her name is Iman and we both are Muslim and would like to stay that way but her father is Christian he is my boyfriend still at this present time and we are staying with him. IF we decide to get married and he DECIDES to convert to Islam then would it be a sin to have a big wedding? Should I just get the imam to come around to my house on a Thursday night. I have asked questions and most people tell me that i should just get the Imam to come around and marry us on a Thursday night. If everything works out for me and him what other steps should he follow to become a Muslim as my parents are not that religious?
I have converted to Islam but my boyfriend is delaying marriage as he is convincing his family to marry me.
My boyfriend was guiding me to Islam and it took so long time(nearly 2 yrs to understand the beauty of islam) and then I became Muslim. We don’t work in same place any longer. He is either not willing to come out or he is getting scared to spend time with me. I understand that now he is staying with his family and it won’t be the same as earlier. I feel I have been rejected by him. I m ready to do anything to convince his family but they are not ready to accept me.
We want to spend our lives together but I am not sure if I should trust him due to cultural, religious and age differences.
I have met and fallen in love with a Saudi student who is considerably younger than me (18years). He is from one of the most liberal cities in KSA and has told me that his family will eventually accept me. I can’t help but wonder if this is possible due to the age and cultural difference, and the fact that his student visa will be expiring in another year or so. I also worry that he may be married already and hiding it from me, so that he has someone to be with while he is in the states. Is there a way to find out if he is married and is there any hope for this relationship?
I lost my virginity and I want to repent.
I am 16 years old and recently (about 2 weeks ago) I lost my virginity to my boyfriend (who is also Muslim). I never planned on losing my virginity before marriage. The moment we had intercourse I was scared and regretted it. I told him to stop then I don’t know why, but I started to cry. I just don’t know what to do at this stage, even though I am guilty for having intercourse before marriage I did it again anyway afterwards.
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