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Should I leave him as he won’t marry me or just stay for the sake of our children?

I have been in a relationship for 5yrs with a Pakistani man and I have 2 children with him and my other children all think he is their dad. He wont marry me. I new him for 18months before we got together when my daughter was just born then I had my son and he still wanted relationship with me. I do everything myself I take nothing from him he gives me nothing in return. Also I didnt find out till after a few years he has a wife and has kids with her; now I feel very trapped.

We both are married but we still love each other and been intimate together. Please help

Until one day, I decided to marry the girl I just met, thinking that the other one is so far from me and long distance relationship most of the time don’t work. Then she couldn’t believe that I got married; she cried I caused her pain which she carried out for years. Even if she really loves me, she doesn’t like to be my second wife. And sometimes she have the guts to ask for a divorce. Until one day, I received a divorce agreement from her family, asking me to sign the papers. Yesterday, she got married and I told her, just pretend that you have your monthly period to avoid having intercourse and tell him that ramadan is also coming. The main purpose is to avoid confusion later on if who’s the father (if she will able to conceive).

Very shy and frightened about marriage and sex.

Like many Muslimahs, my parents expect me to marry after I finish my degree, and they will probably find some suitable men for me to consider…

Sex and relationship with a married Muslim man.

I met a man from Gambia 3 months ago and we hit it off. I was extremely shocked at this as I had given him every opportunity to be honest; I asked him numerous times if he was single and each time he assured me that he was. Over the past week he has spoken of this about 3 times and also text me saying “would you marry me”; I replied by asking if that was a text proposal and he said that it was but that he would also do it face to face and on one knee.

Is Insemination at home permissible in Islam?

i am a pious and religious lady who believe in the oneness of ALLAH(SWT). i have been married for the last 7 years and me and my husband love each other and have no problem with in laws whatsoever ALHAMDULLIAH..

I don’t love my husband! I am thinking of divorce

I’m a 28 year old woman. I’m married for 5 years now, without any kids.
My husband and I have problems with sexual intimacy since day one. In the beginning i was mentally blocked, wich caused me not to feel anything physically. After 1,5 years lots of “practicing.” I finally got rid of the mental blockage. So now you would think the problem is solved right?

Tried really hard but I just can’t get to love him! I am thinking of divorce.

I’ve been married for nearly 6 years and I’m not happy! It’s funny how my family + friends everyone else around me think that I’m very happy in my marriage an couldn’t be merrier. Before I got married I was in a loving relationship with someone for 3 years. Moreover it was serious, so much happened in those 3 years! It felt like I had experienced a life time with him; he was there for me when I needed him even in the saddest times. we hardly make love 5-6 months go by, and that’s how it is.. my hubby presumes there is something wrong with me also keeps advising me to see the doctor. Honestly, I don’t know what to do. If you’ve any good du’as that I could read for maybe happiness in HUSBAND and MARRIAGE please.

Bleeding after sexual intercourse, repentance and salat

I am 16 this year.I just lost my virginity.I had sex with my guy friend yesterday.I truly regret it.That was my first time doing sex.I felt remorseful and regretful after that.I realized I have committed a grave sin.I want to repent.I was truly stupid for following my selfish desires.

Pre-marital sex! Am I allowed to marry her?

I am Muslim and had sex with my girlfriend. She was a virgin. I really regret doing that and I am still asking for forgiveness from Allah (swt). We are getting married next year and I wish to know if, I am islamically allowed to marry her? Please tell me; what are the complications?

I am not loved by my husband

Assalamualikkum wa rahmathullah……

I dont´ know,… from the very first day of my married life my husband showed some kind of dislike towards me. His dislikes was shown only in front of me not in front of others. Everyone thought, we made a good couple, but the bitterness of our marriage was known by me only….