Tag Archive for ‘sin’

A Muslim teenager: lost, depressed, lonely homosexual
I was a good child, I sought Allah, I prayed 5 times a day as a child and even as a teenager. I stayed up long nights reading Quran , making Dikr.. I am not a faithless or unaware person. I know I need to change, I am very lost and confused and find myself doing bad things, talking to bad people.

Need strength to leave haram relationship
I have been involved in a relationship with a muslim boy for nearly a year now, I am muslim as well and we are both 22 years old. When I first met him I thought that he was going to be my future husband and so we started dating. I told him that I would never do anything physical with any guy unless he was my husband and he was fine with it. However now we have done stuff together and I hate myself because of it.

Love and sex before marriage
She told me that she does NOT want to have sex before marriage. But would it be OK if we did as we both know we are going to marry each other? oh and the other thing is that we have not had sex, but we do kiss and have slept in the same bed but not done anything, is that also wrong in islam?

I ruined my life by committing zinaa and I think I was molested as a child
Both of my parents are full time working. My dad has to spend most of his time out of station and mom in the hospital, I would be left with my aunt and cousins. One day, a man came to my house when I was about 5 or 6yrs old, he came to marry my another aunt who can not speak or hear. I don’t know why I remember this, I don’t know if im hallucinating or imaginning it…but I remember it like yesterday.

My father refuses to marry me to my boyfriend because he is from a different part of India
I’m at my wits end and I can’t see any respite from this any time soon. I am your typical British Muslim girl. I am not proud of the way I have lived my life but I am who I am. Whilst I may not appear to look like a Muslim, i.e. no hijab, I am deeply spiritual and whole heartedly believe in Allah and His teachings. I may not follow them much, but I do believe in them.

His parents refuse to allow a “love marriage”
I am muslim girl from good family. I met a muslim guy in my office and we fall in love with each other. His parents are not ready to meet or talk to me, or my parents. They don’t want even see to me. They don’t want a love marriage.

I love him but he’s married and has low iman
I have been with my Pakistani boyfriend for three years during which time I wasn’t Muslim. I read some Quran and became interested in Islam around 6 months ago and said my shahadah around 3 months ago. I have a few worries/problems though.

He promised to marry me, we committed zinaa, and now he’s married another girl!
I don’t know what has happened all of a sudden.The guy who used to promise me so many time that he will marry me after completing my studies, and I did sex with him because of that, suddenly married someone else without telling me. I am afraid of the sins I have done and I am afraid that nobody will marry me!

Mercy and forgiveness: of cleaning a heart and soul that is lost and dirty
I have just come out of a long 4 year relationship with a man whom I thought would be my husband one day. There were signs all along that he was not the one for me yet I persist in my stubborness to make things work. I have done countless sins (zina and drinking) and now that it is over, I feel like I am waking up from a long bad dream.

Fiancé Wants to be a Lesbian
I’m trying to help my fiance, I love her so much, and I don’t like it when she hates herself. She has these disturbing sexual thoughts about her female best friend… and I don’t judge her on her thoughts, but I’m scared and worried… I mean, I trust her with all my heart, but I don’t want her to be filled with temptation.