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Tag Archive for ‘tawbah’

Never dated in fear of sinning but I failed once

I am at a stage where I have realized that the man I thought I was in love with only wanted a physical relationship and not the halal (permitted by Allah) path which is marriage. I was in a vicious circle where I would break up with him and then go back to him. Finally, even though it hurt me to pieces, I was able to let go with Allah’s help. And finally I did it. I did it for me but for the most I did it to please Allah and to stop this dirty and harmful relationship.

I haven’t told him the whole truth about my past

I am in a great trouble of feeling guilty. I want to do “tobah”for all the mistakes i have done in past.actually i was in relationship with a boy 2 yrs before..

How can I overcome my thoughts and go near to Allah

I committed great sins in my past and always wanted to repent but why I do I feel that Allah won’t forgive me? When I stand for prayer I feel as I’m not pure, may be Allah does not like me. He won’t answer my prayers. I always consider myself bad, sometimes I think if I will do hajj, I will be pure and good again.

I made the biggest mistake of my life and scared Allah will not forgive me for it

I am a 19 year old muslima..but 5 months ago I made the biggest mistake of my life. First i want to tell you what kind of person I am..or was. I am a decent girl, tough I did not grow up in a muslim country I was born and raised in Europe..

I am haunted by my past sin, it is causing me problems

I am very embarrassed to even tell that I am a vey unlucky person who had abortion, When I got pregnant, I got really scared that i’ll not be able to take care of my baby due to severe rheumatoid arthriitis, but whatever the reason now I know that it is Haram, and i should’nt have done that, I am really regretful and everyday this sin haunts me..

Bleeding after sexual intercourse, repentance and salat

I am 16 this year.I just lost my virginity.I had sex with my guy friend yesterday.I truly regret it.That was my first time doing sex.I felt remorseful and regretful after that.I realized I have committed a grave sin.I want to repent.I was truly stupid for following my selfish desires.

She wants to marry me but I dont know what to do?

I am a muslim male of 31 years age. I have been in courtship with a good muslim girl since 5 years. I am ashamed of myself that i indulged her in sex over phone. Though she never agreed I forced her always.

I love a Christian woman, everybody tells me to forget her.

I want to marry her, I tried to convince her many times told her Islam is the right way but presently she isn’t ready to revert back to Islam, it’s may be because I never guided her rightly as I myself was sinner and her parents are working in some Christian missionary…

I want my boyfriend to marry me

I want my boyfriend to marry me, I want to live right and be forgiven for my sins. What should I do?

Leaving this homosexuality is my top priority.

Assalaamu alikum… I´m 21 yrs of age and I´m battling with an issue which is very grave from an Islamic point of view….!Homosexuality…Tried to look up an answer for it on other Islamic sites but don´t know why I got no answer…