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I want my boyfriend to marry me

Posted by • May 9, 2011 • Printer-friendly
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I want my boyfriend to get married to me.

I am already a muslim and I want to make my life right before it ends.  I want God to forgive all of my sins!!!

what do I do? please help!

- s.b.


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  1. Rumaysa
    May 9, 2011 • 10:50 am

    Salaams Sister,

    If you want all your sins to be forgiven then start repenting: Make sincere tawbah and ask ALLAH to forgive all you sins. Repent and regret.

    You want your boyfiend to marry you but the BIG question is: does he want to? You should ask your parents to speak to his parents about marriage but sister keep in mind that having a boyfriend is just contributing to more sin.

    Rumaysa

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  2. sonia
    June 1, 2011 • 7:08 am

    i and my boyfriend both love each other ,both want to marry each other, but i m not so rich girl so him father refuse me in front a rich girl and engaged with that girls.we both r unhappy and Islamic view we r mature too.he cant go against him father what to do i m felling so helpless. want to know any dua to get him.
    want to know any dua to get him.
    want to how we r not good for each other,in Islam without know men how we can merry with them .what is the purpose to accept in this type of marriage, i m not understanding any thing what is good or not,
    plz if u know any dua then tell me

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    • María M
      June 1, 2011 • 7:17 am

      As salamu alaykum, sonia,

      Please log in and ask your question as a separate post. Thank you.

      María
      IslamicAnswers.com Editor

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  3. sonu
    June 18, 2011 • 4:00 am

    assalamu alaikum
    brother i dont know what to do.a guy propose me i accept then he asked his father about our mrriage.i dont know what happend their.suddenly he is saying that he is not ready for marriage.
    he idoesnt love me.i love him sincierly.daily iam offering namaz 5times.in every prayer iam asking ALLAH about relationship.but 1month over same situation is going on.pls tel me any dua to get married with that
    person

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    • wael
      June 18, 2011 • 8:55 am

      sonu, please log in and write your question as a separate post, thank you. My short answer is that you cannot make anyone love you or want you. If he has made a decision, you should accept it.

      Wael
      IslamicAnswers.com Editor

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  4. Samz
    July 16, 2011 • 9:39 am

    Asalamualikum

    I Am In Love With A Sikh, We Have Been Together For Two Years And. Four Days. He Is Such A Loving And Caring Person, I Don't Think I Will Ever Find A Guy Like Him. My Parents Don't Know About Him And Vice Versa But If They Find Out They Will Go Mental As My Parents Are Strict. Is There Any Possible Ways That I Can Be With Him?? Will Islam Accept It??

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    • wael
      August 11, 2011 • 5:42 am

      Samz, it is not allowed in Islam for a Muslim woman to marry a non-Muslim. Period. The only way you can marry him is if he converts to Islam. Furthermore, you are committing a sin by dating this guy before marriage. If you want more advice, please log in and write your question as a separate post.

      Wael
      IslamicAnswers.com Editor

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