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Tag Archive for ‘Zinaa’

I love a girl but she had sex with my two brothers in the past

First she was in an intimate relationship with the middle brother, then the elder brother, now me.

An affair with my boss, then his son, but no one loves me

My parents never showed me love, so I turned to anyone who would love me – first my boss, then his son.

Ashamed of my past and my sins, I feel so lost…

I already asked for forgiveness but still I can’t forget what I’ve done, it haunts me. Now I tried to be a good moslemah and forget about the past, but I still feel lost, and scared of other people’s judgments.

Trapped between the risk of zina and usury

I think Riba “Usury” is a bigger sin but think I should get married then start paying off loan, what do you think is best?

Pressured into zinaa with my sister’s husband, now he is blackmailing me

My sister’s husband gifted me a phone when i was 17. he started calling me daily, he manipulated me to like him, then he made me commit zina with him.

Why can’t I move on from this?

I don’t know if it just me really that I am not helping myself move on or a jinn is bothering me and putting those negative thoughts and feelings on me.

Should I marry for status or love?

He is not at all good looking, and everyone says that I deserve better than him. I love him, but I really can’t tolerate his family. They don’t have any standards at all, and that’s why I’m taking back my steps and not fighting for him. I don’t wanna marry some pious man, because I don’t wanna do injustice to him. I may find a guy who’s my type and who has committed sins like mine, but guys don’t accept and can’t bear that their wives are already not a virgin. So I think I cant lead a normal, peaceful life.

She’s the only girl I ever loved; I can’t leave her.

I’m 18, I pray five times and fast, but I have a relationship with a nice Muslim girl. I can’t marry her because I’m too young, but I can’t leave her.

I don’t know what has happened to me since we emigrated from Iraq

I was born in Baghdad and came to California with my family. Since then I have committed some sins and I don’t know how to change and become a better Muslim.

In love with a non-Muslim and going through depression

I met a very sweet nice guy older than me. we started to go out together and suddenly felt in love with each other. The problem is that he is not a Muslim.