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Ashamed of my past and my sins, I feel so lost…

I already asked for forgiveness but still I can’t forget what I’ve done, it haunts me. Now I tried to be a good moslemah and forget about the past, but I still feel lost, and scared of other people’s judgments.

Trapped between the risk of zina and usury

I think Riba “Usury” is a bigger sin but think I should get married then start paying off loan, what do you think is best?

Pressured into zinaa with my sister’s husband, now he is blackmailing me

My sister’s husband gifted me a phone when i was 17. he started calling me daily, he manipulated me to like him, then he made me commit zina with him.

Why can’t I move on from this?

I don’t know if it just me really that I am not helping myself move on or a jinn is bothering me and putting those negative thoughts and feelings on me.

Should I marry for status or love?

He is not at all good looking, and everyone says that I deserve better than him. I love him, but I really can’t tolerate his family. They don’t have any standards at all, and that’s why I’m taking back my steps and not fighting for him. I don’t wanna marry some pious man, because I don’t wanna do injustice to him. I may find a guy who’s my type and who has committed sins like mine, but guys don’t accept and can’t bear that their wives are already not a virgin. So I think I cant lead a normal, peaceful life.

She’s the only girl I ever loved; I can’t leave her.

I’m 18, I pray five times and fast, but I have a relationship with a nice Muslim girl. I can’t marry her because I’m too young, but I can’t leave her.

I don’t know what has happened to me since we emigrated from Iraq

I was born in Baghdad and came to California with my family. Since then I have committed some sins and I don’t know how to change and become a better Muslim.

In love with a non-Muslim and going through depression

I met a very sweet nice guy older than me. we started to go out together and suddenly felt in love with each other. The problem is that he is not a Muslim.

He has walked out on me whilst I’m pregnant

In June last year I got myself involved in a relationship with a married man of 5 children. This man was someone I had known since a very tender age of 14 and at the time he was 17… He claimed he had loved me since I was a little girl but couldn’t pursue me because of what his parents forced him into and that now I had come back into his life he wasn’t going to let me go. I fell for it………. I started visiting his family home and we pursued a very intimate relationship. During this time I fell pregnant… His lack of effort in sorting out this mess left me with no option but to have an abortion. Unfortunately I fell pregnant again and this had a big impact on my mood. Just two days ago he dropped a bombshell on me… he has walked out on me whilst I’m pregnant with his child.

Pregnant with a Hindu but too afraid to tear my family apart

Over the past 6 months I have developed a relationship with a Hindu (he is 2 years younger than me) and I have done zina… I found out yesterday I am 6-7 weeks pregnant. I do not know what to do. I am so scared of continuing with the pregnancy due to what it will put through my family.