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My sexual feelings are taking control over my life

Before I knew much about Islam, I dated many men and have performed many sexual acts with them. I obviously didn´t think much about the religious factor involved in doing such haram things. I had my first boyfreind when I was around 15, we never did anything apart from holding hands and hug. After my first boyfriend till my fifth boyfriend I didn’t do much more than holding hands and hugging.

She lost her virginity. Can I marry her?

So I´m a muslim man stuck with a muslim woman in a relationship outside marriage.

However, this is something I plan to put to an end by marrying the woman though I´m in a dilemma.

The woman in her past lost her virginity to another man …

I´m involved with a separated man with a son, please help.

Few years back, I got involved with a guy. A few months later, he confessed that he is married with one kid. He was having very many issues with his wife and wanted to get out of that relationship.
We became good friends and discussed our problems to find better ways to handle it. BTW, I am now divorced and waiting for him

Friend got pregnant while getting to know a guy for marriage, but he abandoned her

My friend got intimate with another guy and fell pregnant in the process of getting to know each for marriage. The guy asked to terminate but she couldn’t do that. He got married to his cousin back home and when his wife found out about his affair and child she left him. He hasn’t seen his baby and my friend’s life is a mess as she hasn’t told her family about all this because she lives alone in another city.

Lost my virginity, I´ve been driven to suicide

I am a young 17 years old muslim, I always used to pray everyday 5 times but for I stop praying because I thought my deeds were going unnoticed and Allah didn´t care about me(I know at that time I was stupid) and soon after that I stopped wearing the scarf which now I deeply regret.

I liked a boy like every girl does and I really liked this boy but he broke up with me and I was deeply heartbroken.

I had facebook and allowed my close friend to go on it …

I committed zinaa, now he’s threatening to suicide

I am guilty. I committed zina to satisfy a boy. Now, he doesn’t love his wife and I wanted to repent and I don’t want to repeat the same mistake, I ask forgiveness in front of Allah, but the boy tells he will commit suicide. Please help me and this boy …..

Writing a novel about a sinful Muslim woman

I’m writing a novel about an Indian Muslim woman who has an affair with an American and has two children out of wedlock. What would be the consequences if this happened in real life?..

He promised marriage, but took my virginity and walked away

In the second year, we ended up doing zinaa which i hope Allah forgives both of us for that sin. He was the first man in my life and i was sure we would get married.. I did bleed and he promised that he would marry me. However soon after that, he told me that he wasn’t going to marry me…

My husband is not interested in me or in following Islam. Is he an athiest?

All the days he just go to work come back watch movies eat and sleep. I just live a lonely life in a small flat. But he thinks that i love him madly. He never prays and also not interested to learn to recite Quran or only five or six days he fasted during last ramzan. He is not that much interested in sexual intercourse from the beginning of our marriage.

Can I keep my baby without my parents’ consent?

Salaam. I am a 17 year old pakistani muslim girl. I committed zinaa, and had a baby as a result of this. I placed this child in the hands of social services as i was not allowed to keep it as my parents would not allow it.