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My Khula date is very near… but must I forgive him instead?

He is now apologising again that he will never hit me, provide me with a home and fulfill my rights as a wife. I am not sure if I must forgive him or not?

Abusive husband and in-laws… What should I do?

My husband said he will snatch our child from me, that I would kill it or make it like myself. My mother-in-law said I was psycho-case and not able to look after my kid…. He slapped me and when I started crying loudly, started throttling me.

Dreaming about my husband, although he has left me

I don’t know what this dream means. He removed me from the house; in short I am a victim of domestic violence. My in-laws also don’t like me.

My wife’s family want khula

I’ve not been nice to my wife. I’ve not been treating her nicely and hitting her too. I still love my wife of course and want her back. But, she’s not number one in the world. Most women seem to think they are!

Husband hit me, did i do something wrong?

My husband hit me so harshly that I got nose-bleeding and bruises over my body. I am afraid. Afraid to see him again.

Unhappy Marriage – A Result of Forced Marriage

I got forced married to this guy my dad liked… My parents care about him more then me. He hit me… I have pictures of it but my parents think I’m lying – think I did that to myself.

How can I guide my husband to forgive me for cheating?

I am 32 from U.K. I have two kids and I am pregnant with the third child. I felt neglected and cheated on my husband. I got caught and still lied to him about what I did.

my third abusive husband wants to get another wife

salam, if u remember i told my story here before..i met my 3rd husband, and i thought because he have beard and does his prayer,he is a good muslim man..at first he is very kind towards me and to my kids..we just married 6 months ago and now i am pregnant with his child.i am 20 weeks pregnant with my 3rd child alhamdulillah.

Her husband beats her badly, she needs strength to take Khula

We need some serious advice, so she can find the strength to make the right decision and not feel weakened by the cry of her children, when ever he calls or when he msg’s her – and help her to be proactive and doing something about her Khula. We feel that she should leave him, even with four children because the children and her, do not deserve a man like that. We are trying to tell her “that think, if something had gone wrong under the fist beating. IF she become partially paralyzed … or what if she had died under that severe beating.

Should I leave my abusive husband?

I have been married for 8 years and MashAllah have two boys by the Grace of Allah. My husband has physically and verbally started abusing me from the third day of our marriage. For two years I never told anyone. But then I involved his and my family.We have had many sit down discussions. Every time he promises not to do it , but does it again. I dont know if I should stay with him or leave. Please help me.