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I married a Muslim girl the Hindu way, now our families are keeping us separate

Hi,

Firstly I would like to say that I would not want to hurt any one’s religious sentiments.

I have been in love with a Muslim girl for last 3 years. She was very pretty and beautiful. We loved each other very much. But due to her family, her life was threatened and she became in danger.

How to repent from losing my virginity in this way?

I was in my first ever relationship that lasted a few months, in the last month we both had oral sex and he broke my hymen.

How should I deal with my brother’s secret child?

My brother had premartial sex with his then girlfriend and got her pregnant. Now he has a daughter who is the age of 2. His girlfriend is Christian which means that he can marry her but he is no longer with her. Also he has been hiding this from my parents ever since it happened

How can I get over my upset that he is not a virgin?

I’ve been with this guy for almost 7 months now. We are very in love, I care about him immensely. And we are even planning marriage soon. To me he is perfect. There is nothing wrong with him the only problem I have with him is his past. When I first met him he did tell me that he was not a virgin, at that time it did not really bother me because it was a long time ago and he was studying his deen and practicing Islam now so I figured that’s just his past and he’s changed now.

Is marriage after a haram relationship possible?

I’ve been in a relationship with a guy for 5 1/2 years.

Recently, his mom called a few times talking to my mom and my family’s decision was strongly based on istikhara. My parents agreed to perform istikhaara but the result was scary, they saw me skinny and as well as our family’s enemy smiling at us and saw some other weird people too. So my mom rejected.

How can I make this relationship work?

Dear brothers and sisters, I’m in need of a advice. Since my teens years I have been involved in wrong. A year and a half ago I met a very nice Christian girl and we started dating. Early on in our relationship I told her religion will be a problem and she said she would convert if I told her more about religion and if he she thought it was best for her. So we dated and were happy and planned to get married all along.

How should I respond to my boyfriend who is telling me he cannot have a love marriage?

I am in love relationship with one of my good friends. He is now out of country for his Masters. He has a access to all my accounts (hotmail or FB) but he never gave his passwords to me.

How can we break the spell on my brother?

My brother was a quiet and understanding young man. He chose a girl of his choice to marry. My parents were not against their union but they did not want my brother to marry before completing his studies. For the last few months, he has been acting violently.

Should I marry her now I know that she has not saved herself for marriage?

Now I found out that she is not a virgin and she admitted that she had committed adultery when she was in high school (she is 23 now). Now I am really confused about what to do.

Are my actions and dress sense haram?

I’m Zaynab I’m 14 I’m not that religious honestly but I am trying to be a better person I wear tight jeans with hijab and makeup but very light I do feel guilty