I want my boyfriend to marry me but he is engaged to someone else
Me and my boyfriend both love each other and his parents also like me. We both want to marry each other, but I'm not so rich girl so his father refused me in front a rich girl and got him engaged with that girl.
We both r unhappy and Islamic view we r mature too. He can't go against father I also dont want to do that. What do I do, I'm feeling so helpless. I want to know any dua to get him.
I want to how we are not good for each other, in Islam without knowing? Men how we can marry with them.
What is the purpose to accept in this type of marriage proposal. I'm not understanding any thing what is good or not. Plz if u know any dua then tell me. I want him. We are not able to forget each other plz help me
- sonia
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Sonia,
If this man cannot tell his father that money is not important to him and that he wants to marry you because he likes your character etc, then you don't stand much of a chance. If this man stands his ground, his father will have to give you a chance. The ball is in this man's court.
You should distance yourself from him. If he comes back to you with a proper proposal, then consider it. Otherwise protect yourself and move away. The worst thing you can do is run after him. And the best thing you can do is move away. Apart from this, there is nothing you can do. If it is meant for you, it will come back to you.
Make dua that Allah gives you a husband that is good for you in this life and the next and trust that Allah will do good for you. Come nearer to Allah and find comfort in him.
SisterZ
IslamicAnswers.com Editor
if u love some thing even a butterfly set it free, if it comes back 2 u it's urs if it doesn't it has never meant 2 be
all i wanna tell u that if he wants u he will never leave u whatever ganna happend this is his life and he has 2 choose it....
i'm musliem like u and prophet mohamed said
"eza ga2akon man tardon dinaho w kholoko fazawego"
in arabic إذا جاءكم من ترضون دينه وخلقه فزوجوه
so u have 2 take ur decision that u'll not talk 2 him any more and see what he'll going 2 do
if he did nothing so he is not a real man and he'll never be....
bielive meeeeeeeeeeeeee
it happend 2 me
i know how much it hurts but this is life
Hello, I am searching for help because my boyfriend or the man I thought loved me has been engaged to a Muslim woman for the same time as he has been dating me. He has said his decision has been final and that he will marry her. This following month he said he would go and I asked him will you sleep with her? He said he did not know if they allowed it. oh dear god, I ask for the power to forgive with all my heart but i need advice. I am still seeing him I don't know what would be worse to be without him or with him. how can I make him see he loves me not her.??????? should i tell her? should i tell his parents? at least he would not look as innocent as his family thinks of him.???? what should i do???? please help
Hello dear Selene. I'm sorry to hear about your unhappy experience with your boyfriend. The fact is that you can't "make him see" anything. The best thing you can do is end your relationship with him and break off contact with him totally. He is using you. His intentions are insincere, and he's told you straight up that he's going to marry someone else. Respect yourself and end it.
If you need further advice, please log in and write your question as a separate post, and we'll answer you in turn Insha'Allah (God willing).
Wael
IslamicAnswers.com Editor
hi,
I'm glad to come across this site.i am my boyfriend were 2 years together.he asked me to move in or move to another province within him but I did not.so he left then he got engaged.8 months after,he came back and told me he lives me and he misses me.it has been 5 months that we are still together.i feel like I'm dying with an illness that has a time span.each day has been a murder.he tells me how much he wants her,and that he will never anybody but her.he shops for her and takes me with him.he told me that if I want to stay with him I have to let him do what he wants to do for his life.and whatever I am doing for him now,the sacrifices and pains I'm going through,I just have to remember that He loves me.he never gave me any hope that it will be us in the end.almost everyday he reminds me that his life has only one goal and that is to marry her.if he sees me sad,he digs deep because he said that he doesn't want to see me sad,but when I tell him what makes me sad,he gets mad.and he said things that,he will never change his mind.I'm staying still and and feeling all my pains.my problems draw me closer to GOD.i am a roman chaotic and he is a Muslim.
Please advice me.
Thank youc
Mel, you are wasting your time and your life with this man. He is only using you. I understand that you love him, but he does not truly love you in return. Dump him and move on.
Wael
IslamicAnswers.com Editor