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I liked him so much, but he rejected me. Now what?(6)

September 5, 2019

A potential marriage partner came for me and I liked him so much, but he rejected me. I am so hurt.

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Husband is extremely verbally abusive, is it my fault?

I have tried to speak with him in calmer times to explain that his behaviour of getting angry over minuscule things then blaming me for his vile language is a classic example of verbal and emotional abuse, and suggested we look into counselling or advice from any Imam, Sheikh, scholar etc that he feels comfortable to speak with, but he refuses.

Poor family boundaries, and I’m tired of it

I am at a turning point. My father does not care if he is naked in front of me. He doesn’t lower his gaze and I have advised him, but he simply said that he didn’t know I was around. This doesn’t happen once but plenty of times, as our rooms are opposite each other. My mother, on the other hand, does not share the room with him anymore, and has since made the living room entirely hers, even getting dressed in front of my nephews.

I don’t want to hate my mother, but I do

I think I hate my mother, but I don’t want to. She’s my mother, after all. I also think I’m depressed. I have to give a thesis this semester but I can’t concentrate on my work. I can’t sleep at night, I keep blaming and feeling crap about myself.


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