His family do not want us to marry
sad girl
Salaam, I hope u Guys are fine.
My Question is That I love one person and he loves me too actually he was the one who proposed me and now it has been one year and our love is very clean and pure.
We havent seen each other I live in Saudi arabia and he lives in Afghanistan.
He talked with his parents trice about our Marriage and his parents always gives strange answer that im Good girl , have good manner and my parents and also very Good people But they say that the problem is with my Khalas(aunts) and Mamu( uncless)..
Please answer me as soon as possible and tell me that i dont understand if my Parenst are good and im good then whats the problem??? Plzz answer
-maribabak
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Asalaamualaykum, Maribabak,
Sister, you asked: "Please answer me as soon as possible and tell me that i dont understand if my Parents are good and im good then whats the problem???" But, really I think you are asking the wrong people. You need to be asking the 'parents' of this young man, don't you think?
You have not given us much information here, i.e. with regards to how you know this man, have you met, have your families met etc? I am just assuming here, but perhaps the 'parent's want an Afghani girl for their daughter and are finding it difficult to reject you? I don't know, I'm just guessing.
Really, the best thing you can do is ask this man to tell you straight what his parents want, or for you to ask your parents to liaise with them, afterall - that is their role, right?
I do not know how you have fallen in love with this man as you have given no details. But 'falling in love' can easily cloud someone's judgement and lead to fitnah. If this situation continues to remain unclear, its best for you to remove yourself from it and to move on.
If you want more detailed or specific advice, please write back with more information.
SisterZ
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