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Abused by my father, and now by my husband, and I am almost insane

assalaam alaikum to all i am a 26 year old girl who’s been married past 15 months. I am a girl with a mental disorder because my father used to abuse me when I was younger. But it is only my husband now, and he does it very rarely, but when he does, he hurts […]

My mother in law is breaking up my marriage.

MIL doesn’t fear Allah, only misusing being a mother they even tell me tat mother can kill her son, does Islam allow that? She is jealous and wants me to leave her son; as a Muslim wife what should I do? I am very much hurt; my health also is not good because of stress. MIL stays with elder son and his wife; she is happy but still creating all problem in family.

How can I get out of this abusive relationship with no support?

I’m contemplating divorce. Each time my husband fights with me because we have disagreement, he orders me that I should leave and return to my mothers home and he threatens to take my son away from me and kick me out of my marital home. He has formed a habit of continuing this daily.

To divorce or not to divorce?

I was forced to marry my husband when I was 16 years old. I have now been married over 13 years and have 2 children from our marriage. My husband and I had problems at the beginning but I accepted him and then..

How to deal with my abusive husband?

I got job; he asked me to contribute to house hold stuff and eventually in the end I started earning for myself and my house bills etc. He used to beat me often and abuse me; I still tolerated because of recession he didn’t earn a lot and in fact, never showed me how much he earned.

New Convert, Pregnant and Married to Abusive Man

I am a Muslim woman, convert for about a year. I got pregnant and married my Muslim boyfriend, but now he is abusive toward me. I am losing my faith, please help.

Husband accused me of adultery; I don’t know what to do?

I am living with parents and rented out the house. Now he says just admit what you did, but I didn’t do anything with anyone. I love my husband very much but I can’t get divorced I just don’t think my heart can handle it. All I have ever wanted is love and respect and to be a mother & that hasn’t happened. what should I do?

Back with abusive husband-nowhere-to go

As salaamu walaikum my muslim brothers and sister, my last post was of me leaving my abusive husband and getting help thru a program, my mistake was still having contact with my alcoholic mother. My husband found us and even though i notified the program of the situation i was going to have to be relocated, problem was there are not many programs that help people with teenage boys, so i was left returning to him…

My husband is only concerned about his rights

I love my husband but he is unjust. He does not acknowledge my Islamic rights and is threatening me with divorce. I am tired of this unfair attitude but I am hoping he will change.

I need a dua to decrease my love for my abusive husband

I am married but my husband does not love me neither respect me, he abuses me both physically and verbally. I love him a lot but i know that he will never love me. Is there any dua to decrease my love towards him?