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My sins are making me depressed

I really need to write and let my problems out and I hope you guys don’t judge me. Please don’t judge me.

Was it continuous zina??

What should I do to overcome this and be able to look at myself in the mirror. I feel ashamed and sinful and not worthy of even enough repentance, forgiveness at bay.

My parents will kill me if they find out about my boyfriend

I’m 18 and he’s 23 years old, so our ages are different. If my parents find out about our relationship, I’d be dead because they don’t allow me to have a boyfriend. I’m above 18, but I can’t do anything cause I’m under my parent’s rule. Me and him met on Facebook.

Can I make istikhara about my boyfriend?

My other half said he wants to do istikhara. At first I had a bad feeling and I did not want him to do it, only because I thought by him doing istikhara over a relationship that’s haram. I had doubts and I think it will show negative signs/feelings. If we were in a halal relationship, it would show good signs/feelings.

Should I marry him or leave him? I feel guilty for playing with him

My Problem starts at the age of eighteen years. I belong from a muslim family having a good background and mother was very religious. Father was not so much into islam. I was having freedom and was brought up in a free atmosphere. When I was in eleventh class I made a online friend who was hindu..

He makes me feel horrible but I can’t handle another breakup

For the past 4 months I have been seeing a Muslim guy at uni. He told me within 1 month of the relationship that he wanted to marry me. We were happy, he was perfect and I thought Allah finally gave me my happiness. Then things changed. We began to have arguments and now it has gotten to a point where he makes me feel horrible.

I ruined my life by committing zinaa and I think I was molested as a child

Both of my parents are full time working. My dad has to spend most of his time out of station and mom in the hospital, I would be left with my aunt and cousins. One day, a man came to my house when I was about 5 or 6yrs old, he came to marry my another aunt who can not speak or hear. I don’t know why I remember this, I don’t know if im hallucinating or imaginning it…but I remember it like yesterday.

I look like a good Muslim girl but I behave badly

let me short ma story ,,,i got married to an old man who was 65yrs, at da time i was 17yrs old,i have been with him for two years ,,,since then i changed completely,,, i started going out i mean night club but not everyday,,,wearing trousers, have hair extension,, have s** with one then five bf… i cant mention everything

Helpless and lonely

I am 26, girls usually get married around 18 or 19 years, but I am still single. Since I turned to 18 I am praying to Allah after every salat to bestow mercy on me n and prayed to get married soon.

Being In Love At A Young Age, As A Muslim, In the UK

I am a muslim boy, who is 15/16 years of age, I am living In the UK. I am a good Muslim who reads Salah, and I am also learning the Quran by heart.

At the moment I am in Year 11, which is the last year of Secondary/High School. I have had very strong feelings for a girl in my class, she is also a good Muslim. I have had these feelings for nearly two years.