Islamic marriage advice and family advice

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Don’t know how to approach getting married

I know that my fate is already written by Allah swt, and I know I need to put my faith and trust in Him. However I also feel like I need to do something about it as it won’t just land in my lap.

Getting married, but unsure about some things

I just want the marriage to be a happy one, blessed by Allah, that’s all. What can I do to be the best partner and friend I can be to my wife?

Questions I can ask my potential spouse

There has to be a way to make sure I know I am not marrying a woman who has committed terrible sins?

Istekhara dream interpretation

Is it a positive or a negative for us? We are good for each other or not?

Interracial and Interfaith marriage

He is now asking me to marry him. I’m thinking about how it will become in terms of raising our children – should we follow the rules of Islam that the kids should be a Muslim also?

My mother got a negative isteqara for me but I didn’t

There is nothing negative against the guy except for the isteqara dreams. My mother is pretty adamant because going for this guy is going against Allah’s will and nothing good can ever come out of it.

Marriage proposal and ishteqara result

I got a proposal. I am interested and want to marry him. But my parents are against it due to fear of society. They liked the boy though.

Two proposals from very different men… Which is right for me?

How important is compatibility, likability and acceptance before marriage? What should I do?

Need advice regarding my Istikhara

Since performing the istikhara I still feel confident with the choice I have made. I think about her, keep wondering how she is and what she’s doing but never since istikhara has the thought about marrying her come across my mind.

He’s done zina in the past… I’m concerned

I know it probably sounds like I’m judging him harshly, but I’m considering marrying him and it’s a big deal, I have to be objective, right?