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I Feel I’m Becoming Something I’m Not

I cannot remember a day when I was happy and smiling… I feel I’m becoming something I am not!

20 year old male, molested at age 7 by my uncle

I was first molested when I was about 7 by my uncle. I know killing myself isn’t allowed, but I would rather be dead so I can stop the thoughts in my mind and stop pretending to be something I’m not.

Following the direction of Istikhara but facing troubles…

I want to take some advice for my friend. It’s about marriage things. Now-a-days he is studying in a foreign country and there he came across a Muslimah which he feels is a perfect choice for him. He did Istikhara and found some positive signs and then decided to proceed. Initially everything was going fine step by step but now some troubles start coming in his way.

He broke the engagement after his father’s death, is Allah Angry with me?

my father in law died suddenly before one month that way our marriage was delayed but after death behaviour of my fiancee had chnged and he broke the relation just after his father’s chehlum

Desperate, heartbroken and saddened mother in need of help and guidance

I need some advice what Islam say about dividing the property?? Is my husband doing something wrong?? Should he give more property to his children not only flat? If anything is in hadith would be grateful so that I can show to my husband and he will understand.

I aspire for a daughter even though I am not married; Has anyone had such feelings?

I should not think negatively about Allah, I should think that He will in sha Allah bless me with a daughter. But still when I see someone with a daughter, I kind of get depressed and the thought that Allah may not give me a daughter overpowers me.

I still can’t forget him; is there a way out?

I am 16 i broke up with him on my bday and now my 17th birthday is coming, am feeling so low, that why is this happening to me, why isnt anything helping me :'( i feel like screaming, i am very happy from out as if i dont worry or care about anything, but deep inside i am dead,

How to stop fearing the future?

I don’t even allow myself temporary happiness or appreciate the blessings that God might be giving me because I wait for something to go wrong because I feel like that’s how its going to be if I become religious -I have to deal with continuous difficulties.

He has left me because I don’t speak the language his mother understands

I know he will not change his decision and that she is the one he wants and no matter how much I beg him and want to be with him he will not be with me because he wants someone who can speak to his mother in his native language. This hurt me because I have been trying my best to learn his language but it can not happen over night.

He has walked out on me whilst I’m pregnant

In June last year I got myself involved in a relationship with a married man of 5 children. This man was someone I had known since a very tender age of 14 and at the time he was 17… He claimed he had loved me since I was a little girl but couldn’t pursue me because of what his parents forced him into and that now I had come back into his life he wasn’t going to let me go. I fell for it………. I started visiting his family home and we pursued a very intimate relationship. During this time I fell pregnant… His lack of effort in sorting out this mess left me with no option but to have an abortion. Unfortunately I fell pregnant again and this had a big impact on my mood. Just two days ago he dropped a bombshell on me… he has walked out on me whilst I’m pregnant with his child.