Tag Archive for ‘depression’

Husband wanted me to do haram things
I need help! I have been married for over 20 years. I am a practicing muslim and I loved my husband with all my heart and I did everything for him. I found out that my husband has been on the internet soliciting women and massages. He sometime stayed out all night with the pretense that he was at work. He started drinking and smoking again. He stopped praying with me…

I’m in deep pain, cannot talk to anyone
I am struggling alot, i have no control of my body and my mind is telling me to suicide i know its bad and i have held very strong for now is 4 and a half years of pain and grief. I havent seen the boy for nearly 6months or have i spoken to him. Its been very harsh so harsh i cant breath anymore and my body is shaking constantly. I have severe major depression and now i am 18yrs old and i havent told my parents about my severe depression as i hide it away from them, but they have notices me shaking and heard me cry

My husband doesn’t have a white collar job, I feel ashamed sometimes.
I am a 29 year old female with two daughters mashAllah! I also have a loving husband who really does care for me.
Yet at times, I fall under severe depression, undergoing feelings which I cannot share with anyone. Everyone in my family is highly educated, comprising of doctors, engineers, CA’s etc however certain situations arose that I got married to a guy who is not too highly qualified.
And now here in the west, he doesn’t have a white collar job like the rest of my family…

My wife doesn´t trust me, please advise
Asalaam alaikum. I seek marriage guidance and advise. I am 27 years of age and have been married for 6 months. I am a practicing muslim and pray 5 days a day and have been to do ummrah. I married a divorcee whom has a 5 year old son from Pakistan. Since my marriage my wife always makes false accusations that i am cheating on her..

Can’t trust my husband after I found emails to other women
I found out and confronted my husband about what appears to be an emotional involvement via email, with a woman he met on a flight. The back and forth seemed like a prelude to something more physical but I could make out, that despite his entreaties, the woman had not taken the ‘affair’ to the next level…

I´m involved with a separated man with a son, please help.
Few years back, I got involved with a guy. A few months later, he confessed that he is married with one kid. He was having very many issues with his wife and wanted to get out of that relationship.
We became good friends and discussed our problems to find better ways to handle it. BTW, I am now divorced and waiting for him

Friend got pregnant while getting to know a guy for marriage, but he abandoned her
My friend got intimate with another guy and fell pregnant in the process of getting to know each for marriage. The guy asked to terminate but she couldn’t do that. He got married to his cousin back home and when his wife found out about his affair and child she left him. He hasn’t seen his baby and my friend’s life is a mess as she hasn’t told her family about all this because she lives alone in another city.

My ex is cursing me because I finished with him due to his haram lifestyle
I wanted to ask question regarding the solution to a problem that I am facing right now. I was going to get married to a guy. Both families met and agreed to our marriage. Everything went well from both sides Alhamdullilah. However after a while, the guy I was going to get married started to act strange. He witnessed his friend’s death and this changed him to a totally different person. He was facing a lot of problems and had family responsibilities as he was the eldest in the family. His father passed away before he was so, he had no father figure around him.

My husband wants to divorce me because I won’t leave my sister
I’m suffering from Mental illness and Eating disorder. Since im marrid with him his problem is my sis who lives few miles away. She doesn’t follow Islam. But when i was in need of help she was there for me who stopped her work when i was in the hospital.

I commited so many sins, …I feel inferior
I had a man in my life. He left me for the other lady which is more than 8 year older than him. I turned psychotic. My mama forced me to eat by hook or crook one day. I started abusing her and then ……