Tag Archive for ‘domestic violence’

Unstable harmony – beatings by husband who loves me
My arms which were smooth are now covered in scars. He kicks me in my belly, he hits me in the face, chokes me, anyhow, becomes very violent. And when I kick back or push him away, he says I am very wrong for doing so. I should never even come close to pushing my husband. He beats me because I were to become disobedient. And it’s true that I have some issues with obedience. I sometimes can’t keep up. There are lots of things I need to change, but I can’t do it in one day, one month or even one year, it takes time. I do want to change.

I am 15 & my father beats my mother and is an alcoholic
I heard my mum screaming stop, I saw my dad repeatedly hitting her, I tried to stop and pull my dad away but never done any good. He grabbed a chair and was about to hit it my mum with it until I came in front and got hit with the chair, but that didn’t stop my dad he went to a kitchen and grabbed a knife a went towards my mum… I went in front so he couldn’t touch her because she was pregnant

I’m too scared to stop my violently abusive father.
I would like to know if there is some sort of dua for my father who is a very angry and abusive man. He is abusive towards my mother, and has been since I can remember from childhood. He will beat her, swear at her, insult her and her family and threaten to divorce her.

Back with abusive husband-nowhere-to go
As salaamu walaikum my muslim brothers and sister, my last post was of me leaving my abusive husband and getting help thru a program, my mistake was still having contact with my alcoholic mother. My husband found us and even though i notified the program of the situation i was going to have to be relocated, problem was there are not many programs that help people with teenage boys, so i was left returning to him…

My sister in law is interfering in my marriage
I would appreciate some advice…I’ve been married to my cousin for 8 years and we have 3 children.
Our marriage was arranged and things are going downhill. I feel like I´m losing this war of trying to keep my marriage together….

Confused about my abusive husband’s behaviour
Salaam, Im a revert, Allah SWT blessed me with this beautiful religion in the form of marriage to a muslim man, I was christian beforehand.We got married, but my problems started immediately after marriage. He turned into this man whom I never knew at all. He started being rude, shouting at me and getting angry over small issues. i feel unsafe when he gets angry. Once he caught me by my neck and tried to choke me.

Domestic violence and kids
I really badly need advise. Me and my kids are suffering from domestic violence from my alcoholic and abusive husband. We seen Blood in his eyes to kill all of us, he threaten to kill us all the time and then he is sorry for his behavior.

Husband beating me and neglecting me, what should I do?
The entire week he used to be out 15 hours for work, & I used to be alone at home. Or he used to simply leave me at his parents home. I was working at management level before I got married, but due to the fights he didn’t let me work afterwards. Whenever I went to his parents place, they wanted me to serve them for everything. Though they had daughters, I was like a servant to them. Soon I started fighting with my husband for all this & he started beating me.

I dont want to divorce my husband but I am also scared of giving him another chance
I had a nikkah over the phone and had only met my husband after I had the nikkah since he lived in pakistan and I live in the UK. This was an arranged marriage. I had seen his picture and had spoken to him over the phone. Since my parents knew the family so well and my in laws seemed so nice I thought my parents made the right decision

Verbally abusive wife
My wife and I are both british and had a love marriage. We were fine for a short time but as time has progressed my wife has become very tempermental, when angry she speaks abuse. I cant mention basically its unthinkable towards me and my family.