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Please help me, I am scared and don’t know what to do

Many times I have wanted to leave, but he has been sexually physically and verbally abusive. He is so possessive and manipulative and I have been forced to do many things I did not consent for.

I’m 10, my mom drinks and I hate her

I’m 10 years old and my mum has her friends staying in my house. I know they make her drink and influence her to drink wine. She makes me look after my 3 year old brother every day and I can never rest.

My husband hates me and is cruel to me

I can’t turn to his parents as they have blamed me in the past and say as a woman it’s my responsibility to basically to keep quiet and put up with whatever he does.

Emotionally abusive mom

She will never be able to get over this overweight issue, and she will never understand that this life is very short before our bodies are destroyed in the grave. She will always be critical of culinary skills, although our Prophet (S) said that a few bites are more than enough to stand straight.

Suicidal and traumatised by my past

I have posted here before and got a lot of help, but my mother decided to push me into a trap and now I feel worthless sinner again.

Severing ties with family

Will I go to hell for severing ties with my aunt and older sister when they have been so emotionally and physically abusive with me?

Trying to understand my past… please help?

Was my mother’s emotional abuse and sexual abuse the reason for all this?

Helpless and Emotionally Abused by My Mother

I am seriously alone and I am scared and I am helpless. How do I continue to live here? As I have gotten older the abuse has gotten harder to endure.

Still haven’t left an unbearable relationship

The only reason I have stayed with him was my child, who is now 3 years old. But now when I see him not taking care of me as well as my child, I think I should leave now. I know my child needs a father, but a father like him? And would my child be okay seeing a depressed mother all the time or disconnected parents, who either fight or would not speak to each other for weeks? Or would he be better off?

Is it abuse?

want to divorce him so I can be free and happy with my children, but he claims that because he is the father and they have dual citizenship in his country, he can take the kids at any time to live there. He has even told me that he doesn’t care if we separate, but the kids are his. I maintain that he is an unfit father because he can’t support them financially, never takes them to school or attends their school functions, and is verbally abusive to them.