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Desperate need of help

Now after being together for 12 years and on a long distance relation, I came to know, he has no such feelings for me. He says he loves me and wants my happiness, on the other hand, he has no interest in me.

20 years old and wanting to get married

My parents say they can not marry me as we don’t have financial power. But me and my fiance are both ready to limit our needs.

Happily engaged, now forced to marry someone else!!

I wanted to know if a man and woman happily get engaged, should either of them consider someone else for marriage if their parents/guardians or ANYONE else tell/force them to?

How to avoid physical intimacy with my fiancé

We want to try to avoid being by ourselves. But I guess we can’t want it as strongly as we should. How to increase the willpower?

How can I stop being so distressed about his past? I want to marry him.

When he was 14 he had a short relationship with a girl, they didn’t have sex but they have kissed… I want to be the best for my husband but it feels like some other girl has taken that away from me and he won’t feel all that with me.

My fiance forces me to do cyber and phone sex

He forced me to do phone sex and wanted me to initiate or invite him for it… He was angry at me. He said that you don’t have any sexual feelings, what kind of woman you are…

He’s changed after nikah, but we’re due to get married in 3 years – how will I cope with his anger?

I wouldn’t have had any problem if he got angry once every week but he gets angry almost every second day which has made my life hell. And then he is like I’m fed up of you, you don’t seem to understand me, you never listen to me.

My fiance has Asperger’s, and I am not attracted to him

The second day of isthikara I found out he has Asperger’s syndrome, which is a mild form of autism. This explains his personality, him talking with his eyes closed, talking very loudly in public, no social skills, his awkwardness, etc.

Engaged to another woman in his home country – what can I do?

I told him I will come to Iraq in someway. I don’t think he will be able to keep his promise of protecting me if I go there. But the pain is too much and I cannot let him go. I want to be his forever.

My fiance has a big anger problem

I have been engaged to my cousin since last year. He is an angry man, uses abusive language , and has no control on his temper. I don’t really know if he love me or not. He says that he loves me, but the problem is that he abuses me whenever he loses his temper.