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He has walked out on me whilst I’m pregnant
In June last year I got myself involved in a relationship with a married man of 5 children. This man was someone I had known since a very tender age of 14 and at the time he was 17… He claimed he had loved me since I was a little girl but couldn’t pursue me because of what his parents forced him into and that now I had come back into his life he wasn’t going to let me go. I fell for it………. I started visiting his family home and we pursued a very intimate relationship. During this time I fell pregnant… His lack of effort in sorting out this mess left me with no option but to have an abortion. Unfortunately I fell pregnant again and this had a big impact on my mood. Just two days ago he dropped a bombshell on me… he has walked out on me whilst I’m pregnant with his child.
Family arguments and emotional blackmail
6 years ago when my ex-husband first left this relative’s husband came onto me on 3 different occasions. After the 3rd incident where he touched my arm I mentioned this to the relative… she said I was jealous of her life and was after husband. I still remained close to her as I was a single parent and had no one else to help me. She would tell me other family members were saying I said this and that to them when i hadn’t, so we would fall out.
Pregnant with a Hindu but too afraid to tear my family apart
Over the past 6 months I have developed a relationship with a Hindu (he is 2 years younger than me) and I have done zina… I found out yesterday I am 6-7 weeks pregnant. I do not know what to do. I am so scared of continuing with the pregnancy due to what it will put through my family.
Marriage with a Christian woman
I’m a Muslim man, 25 years old. I like a Christian girl and would like to get married to her. She is ready to accept Islam (if she has to) and lead life as a wife the Islamic way (Hijaab.. etc). I understand that Surah Ma\’idah allows a Muslim man to marry a chaste Christian. But I have a list of questions I would like to get clarified:
Interfering in-laws
She used to have relationship with her husband for two years before they got married. The rest of their relationship, it was so great, they both were very happy. She told her family about that guy she wants to marriage, her family are very support her & don’t have any problems nor against her wish as long as she is happy then they are happy for her.
Family is falling apart after my sister had an affair with my stepbrother
My mother had cheated on my father three years ago, and a year after that he married his highschool sweetheart who also became a muslim before he even asked her in marriage..
Can we perform the Nikkah again?
My youger sister got married to a person recently without informing me and my family. But after performing Nikaah she came back home. We have not told this matter to any of our relatives. Now we have decided that we will perform her Nikaah to the same person by inviting and informing our Friends and Relatives
How should I deal with my brother’s secret child?
My brother had premartial sex with his then girlfriend and got her pregnant. Now he has a daughter who is the age of 2. His girlfriend is Christian which means that he can marry her but he is no longer with her. Also he has been hiding this from my parents ever since it happened
How can I win the confidence of her parents?
My problem is that I loved a girl for past 10 years and have been sincerely waiting for her. After a long patience I prayed to ALLAH and finally found that because of my dua that girl also started loving me.
Is this abandonment in Pakistani culture?
It’s now six months passed and my son has never met his father. The father ended contact with me, he blocked me out from everything.
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