Islamic marriage advice and family advice

Tag Archive for ‘fear’

Did our actions count as Zina?

A few years ago, I was in a haram relationship. I have now changed and am much closer to religion Alhamdullilah, but I worry that if I’m not a virgin, it reduces my status as a woman…It would make me feel so guilty.

My friends are all married but I can’t even finish school

Everything seems so difficult, as I feel mentally drained. I feel old and tired. Studying while working a job is so difficult.

How do I tell my parents I want to marry someone else?

Because if they are to find out, honor killings are still present here, and I will just add a number to it.

I am raising money for my asylee friend’s family!

Hello, I am Himari, and I have a family friend whose name we call “Minnesota family.” They came to the USA as asylees, and their case is still pending. When they first arrived in 2019, the wait times were 180 days at max, but COVID happened and there were so many people filing for asylum […]

All my Duas turn against me, and I now fear making Dua at all!

I was praying and thanking Allah for keeping me safe while going down the stairs as daily dhikr. At that very moment, I fell down the stairs and broke my foot badly…before I even finished my Dua!

I shared my body measurements with a guy online

I explained how this is wrong and I will no longer keep the chat open, and that they should forget me, my measurements, what happened…

I regret my decision to quell my parents’ insecurities and marry

My parents pressured me into marrying a man from America, but I am just not feeling it. He is boring and I see more of his flaws with every day that passes.

I judged her to be a good person, only to discover she is not.

Someone I know is becoming like her evil sister, and I want to know how to get out of this relationship.

I am guilty of adultery but my husband doesn’t know

I committed adultery in a weak moment. I’ve read that we shouldn’t expose our sins but I’m so afraid that they might come to light somehow.

I dreamt of a child with white irises…and cried from fear

I thought it might be some kind of demon, so I became fearful and recited a number of Surahs. Only Allah could save me now.