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Rejecting marriage proposal due to lineage

Can we reject a proposal because of negative traits in the girl’s family?

My husband’s ex-wife wont leave us alone!

I know they will take pictures of our baby, and the lady will send it straight to his ex, so I did tell my husband I would ask them not to, and also tell them the reason why. My husband said it’s not right, but I could do what I think is best.

How to balance between a controlling mother and wife

My mother-in-law recently bad-mouthed my mother, which she found out about. Now she laments that her sons don’t stand up for her and she has no one to make people respect her. When I tried to explain that I have very little control over my in-laws, she suggested to send my wife back to her home to ‘teach my in-laws a lesson’.

A Close same-sex friend of mine likes me

A friend told me she had a crush on me… The news spread like wildfire, everyone thought we were together.

How can I prove my fiance is innocent ?

His name is spoiled for a false claim and everyone backbites and gossips.

Reputation

This time I got married to the right guy and it was not love marriage but it ended very bad. Now what do I do with my life?

I am not able to forgive myself for my behavior…

What I did and said is killing me so much for doing this to my mother, under whose feet is jannah and who Allah has commanded to be kind to.

Backbiting

I don’t even remember the people I wronged. How can I ask them for forgiveness ?

Is it wrong listening to mom’s problems?

Is it Ghibah ?!! Even if I try to remain neutral or silent still I’m a human . I may say yes or no to certain things . Or answer some . Plus if I remain silent she complains that I don’t listen…

Will my past haunt me??

I don’t know what to do, I know if I told my husband he would leave.