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My Muslim friend is in a relationship with a Hindu guy; I feel guilty and want to end our friendship.

The problem is that her boyfriend is Indian and he is not Muslim. She says that she is Muslim but doesn’t want to pray, fast, wear hijab or do anything else. She said that once she joked around with my dad about marrying an indian non-Muslim guy; he got angry and said that he will never accept her as his daughter ever again. There is no way he would convert and become a good Muslim as he is not interested. To be honest I really don’t think that he is going to marry her.

Could someone advise me regarding my daughter’s choice of boy for marriage?

He was very short and skinny whereas my daughter is very tall and healthy. It would look very odd, to which she laughed. May Allah forgive me; This guy said that he doesn’t need my permission and he will go ahead with his family and marry my daughter.

Boyfriend threatens to expose our relationship to my parents; ruin my life and career.

Within one month of knowing each other, we got together as courting couple. It was my first time. It was him who wanted, and I was reluctant at the start, but followed him. Between me and him, we had already started to talk about settling down next year. He likes to threaten me, saying that he will meet my parents and blurt out everything about what we have done. e also said that he will ruin my career and will create havoc at my workplace. I feel like, all these are happening because I didn’t take care of myself well; I caused shame to my parents I did what they forbid us to do.

Islam makes me feel lost and scared

I converted to Islam about 4 years ago alhamdulillah. My decision was completly based on my mind, my rational thoughts. In my heart i did not really like Islam as a religion….

Am I divorced? Am I gonna be punished for divorcing my husband?

While we were both very excited about the pregnancy, he asked me to stay home from work because my job was very physical. I loved my husband so much that I waited 14 months for him to be released. While he was in jail, I got an apartment and took care of all the bills, my 2 children. I got a call from my doctor saying that; I had contracted Chlamydia. I begged him to stop and he said he will. Two weeks later they were still talking and they were even in contact with each other while we were at an Islamic conference together for the weekend.

Husband gets angry over small things, need help with marriage.

I am muslimah. I have been married for 5 years. It is a love marriage. I don’t know what else to say about my marriage except that I have been crying my eyes out so often these years. I don’t know where to start. I used to think that I was so lucky to have found a man who adores me and loves me for who I am. But things turned sour after the marriage…

Seeking Allah’s help to solve all problems in my marriage.

My problem is that within 4 months into our marriage, he was diagnosed with diabetes. Since then, either he or I have been facing health problems one after another. Also, we are unable to have a baby and my treatment fell through as well…

Is it a coincidence or is there a real connection?

My husband lives abroad and he is a righteous person Masha Allah. He always asks me to offer 5 times prayers and thanks Allah (swt) all the time for everything. However, I feel like I am drifting away from my religion and also I lie to my husband sometimes. I have noticed that whenever I commit any sin, my husband suffers from some kind of loss.

My ex is cursing me because I finished with him due to his haram lifestyle

I wanted to ask question regarding the solution to a problem that I am facing right now. I was going to get married to a guy. Both families met and agreed to our marriage. Everything went well from both sides Alhamdullilah. However after a while, the guy I was going to get married started to act strange. He witnessed his friend’s death and this changed him to a totally different person. He was facing a lot of problems and had family responsibilities as he was the eldest in the family. His father passed away before he was so, he had no father figure around him.

Divorced and Unhappy after Sincere Supplication

What is troubling me is the difference between the theory of good will that is espoused and the reality within the community. In regards to connection with Allah, it appears that anyone who turns to Allah with a pure heart on the matter of marriage will be rewarded with a suitable husband……