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I lied to my family, but the truth would destroy them

I know that if my family found out the truth, it’d hurt them, anger them, lead them to hate me or even hurt me, and could destroy my family and bring shame and embarrassment onto them and me.

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Seeking comfort from someone else

I am married to a man who lies and cheats. My supervisor at work hugged me when I was crying. For the first time I felt comforted and secure.

Poor family boundaries, and I’m tired of it

I am at a turning point. My father does not care if he is naked in front of me. He doesn’t lower his gaze and I have advised him, but he simply said that he didn’t know I was around. This doesn’t happen once but plenty of times, as our rooms are opposite each other. My mother, on the other hand, does not share the room with him anymore, and has since made the living room entirely hers, even getting dressed in front of my nephews.

Lost my partner’s trust, we are broken

e had asked me for the full truth, as his gut was telling him I had hidden so much. I told him some truths and then swore it was everything. He then begged me that there was more and I should come clean so I told him a few more things but still hid others. He then said he would go to my ex-friends and ask them if I didn’t come clean myself. Afraid of the humiliation, I told him every detail. I explained to him that I never wished to hurt him, and my intentions were always pure.

His family is full of hate and drama

There is so much hate in his family. Everybody is disturbed in the mind. I have always had fingers pointed at me for the years I served them. I have been insulted by his family since the first day, and every time I went there. I want to be happy with my husband, and I don’t want anyone in my personal space.

Cruel sister-in-law

I need everyone to know the truth about her…

Secret marriage

I understand man doesn’t need permission from first wife to marry second wife but does he has a right to lie and cheat?

Controlling insecure husband

Prior to marriage, he would tell me that he was very strict and promised a life based on Islam. After marriage I found it was only me who he wanted to cage in with him free to do as he pleases.

I am feeling lost and full of hate

I trusted him but he is a liar and a player… why he says he is Muslim?!

I lied about a dream.

The dream I made up was a good one, for them to believe good tidings will come their way. I feel like a hypocrite.