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Can I leave my mother after she lied to me about my father?

My parents have had an divorce when I was at the age of 9 . I have been living with my mother for 7 years with two other sibling and had no contact with my farther because of my mother, I had so much hatred built in my heart that I hated my father because what my mother had told me. so started building hatred for my father for the sake of my mother also to please in some sense.

Dumped out of the Blue after 3 and a half years – will he ever speak to me again?

What hurts the most is the way he just suddenly cut me off after 3 and a half years. I’m shocked that I helped him so much in life when he was in trouble with work and money and he suddenly just turned his back on me. We used to speak every day and now, suddenly – nothing.

My husband is taking drugs, lying and not providing for us.

I have been married for 12 years with two kids. I have been happy in my marriage until now. Between the last few years my husband has not been employed after he sold his business…

My in-laws are creating problem in our marriage financially and emotionally. Please help me.

I have been married for 3 years now and during all this time, my in-laws take all the money from my husband’s earnings even though I don’t have a sister in law and all my brother in laws are married. Is this right? I am very insecure because our child is on the way and we can’t save even if we want to. My sister-in-law (wife of my brother-in-law) is very proud. She doesn’t even talk to me; in fact, she looks at me in a demeaning way. She is rude and very clever. She made her brother’s wife leave because of her rude behaviour. Is this true what goes around comes around? She has hurt me so many times.

Am I in an haram relationship?

I have been with my Muslim boyfriend for 6 years now and we were having sexual relations for about 5 years. Since this discussion a year has passed and now I have reverted to Islam, which I am very happy and proud about. I know that this is obviously haram as Allah does not permit any form of relationship between the opposite of sex till marriage, and if it was down to me I would marry him in a heart beat. But here is where it gets complicated because he says that he will marry me but not until he finishes his degree and/or if I get a good job.

What should I do about my marriage as my in-laws have turned my husband against me?

I am a 24 year old female. I am the eldest in my family with a younger sister. I was proposed by a guy; in fact, in Nikkah to him some 5 years back. They will speak all kind of lies and will do anything and everything for money. He stopped speaking to me last year and did speak to me again by the end of January. I know that Almighty will definitely punish them for ruining my life but by that time my life would be in another state. My parents insist me in getting married as I have a sister and me staying like this might ruin her life. Any suggestions?

My husband is in debt and is very controlling

ear Brothers and Sisters in islam, my problem’s started six years ago when I married a man who was a lot more religous than I was, after alot of tragedy in my life i came to the conclusion that I needed to marry a man who would fear Allah and understand what a muslim marriage was all about, after refusing a few offers of marriage i met someone through a family friend..

Who has rights of inheritance over parents money?

Just wanted to know who has rights of inheritance over parents money. Is it son or daughters or both? Plus what right do daughter in law have when it comes to father in laws money and property?

Living with a non-Muslim man who promised to convert to Islam before marriage.

I have been living with a non-Muslim man for a year now who I am engaged. He promised to become Muslim once we get married. He is learning about Islam little by little but I feel he will never do that for all the right reasons.

I feel useless….

I have been in a relationship with this guy for a few months but we always argue and he is always rude and disrespectful to me, and we always break up and we always get back together but I know I shouldn’t but I can never stop.