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I want to marry my boyfriend but I’m paranoid that someone has been watching me

Salaams, I have been going out with a guy for about 4years. I know that it is a sin, and i am trying to put things right as we both would like to get married. My mum recently found out about him and i feel as though she is not happy, obviously because i have been seeing him. Now I feel paranoid that someone is following me.

Isthikhara on love before marriage

I’ve been asking questions and cant seem to find an answer which is simple. I’ve known this guy for about nearly 3 years and through out those years i’ve always explained to him that i didnt want to be a part of a relationship before marriage and that if we loved each other we wouldnt take one another to hell. It is because of me that he started praying and that he said i made him a better person as i lead him the right way.

How do I help my best friend realise the enourmity of her sin?

I heard u give really good advice, as my friend emailed u asking about a frend who lost her virginity willingly. Well the that friend in fact is my best frend and I have the same problem. But nothing about forgiving. I just dont know whether to trust her or not, as i feel very uncomfortable around.
And another one of my frends is trying to advice her about the consequences and what she must do (wearing a hijab) but she just doesn’t seem to feel the guilt of her actions.

We want to be punished for our sins so that we can be purified

I am 24 years old and have been in love with a guy for the last 6 years. During the last four years we have been committing zina occasionally as we both thought that since we will be married, it wasn’t so bad. But recently we have both been studying Islam more deeply, and we realised what a grave sin we both have done. We feel so ashamed now.

Half a Virgin

He was my first boyfriend, and at this stage I was very naive, foolish, unknowledgable about the whole dating process, and was somewhat heavily influenced by his lifestyle. Due to my naivety, I am scarred by certain things he made me do, which i realised later are considered to be major sins in Islam. After research, I can say with deep repentance that I am half a virgin.

I swore on the Quran, then broke my promise

I touched the Quran and swore that I will never drink alchol but I did it with the permission of husband as he asked me to swear

Asking for forgiveness

I have been married for 3yrs now and previously I was going out with my boyfriend. We constantly had sex and couldnt resist each other.

Now that I am married, I cant get him out of my head and we do regular see each other aswell. When we see each other now we do kiss but thats about it.

I have stopped seeing him now as I feel so guilty and dirty.

I’ve accepted Islam and now my sins are clear to me I want to change

I find myself crying over this issue and need help. I recently accepted Islam into my heart after learning more about it from my boyfriend. He is a born Muslim. Before I converted we did things (non physical) that were haraam, and now we want to get married.

My boyfriend may object to me aborting his baby as he is a devout Muslim

Sadly today I have found out that I am pregnant. It is far too early to have this happen so I intend to terminate, however I am unsure how he will react if I decide to tell him as I am unsure of the islam stance on abortion (I am only just learning about the islam faith after being at the mosque for eid) and this concern is making me consider taking care of this discreetly on my own so he does not feel under any preasure to act.

I have had haraam relations with my boyfriend, how do I repent and make my parents agree to marry us?

I love a guy who is very good we are together for about 3 yrs mashallah and deeply in love. But we have done a sin, we did not engage in sexual intercourse but except that, hope you understood. Now we both want to repent things just happen and we actually cant figure it out. I really want to repent so do my bf and also that we dont want to do that again.