Islamic marriage advice and family advice

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Ultra-controlling husband is suffocating me

My husband grew up without affection, and when he saw how affectionate my family is, he decided that we are all perverted. Since then he controls my behavior down to the tiniest detail.

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I feel anxiety, something is wrong with me

I don’t know what’s the problem, but when I’m near to ALLAH I feel good, but I feel something is wrong in myself. I get alot of migraines. I cry alot. I’m a Muslim girl living far away from my parents in another country, for international studies. I feel something is not normal in me. I feel a lot of heaviness in my body.

My father is breaking the family with his verbal abuse

My father mentally torture us siblings and my mother with his words. He didn’t hit us ever, nor my mother. But he use his words and says things that shatter us and our confidence. My mother has never been happy in this marriage, I can see that, but she never says a single word to him.

Parents are trying to force me away from the girl I want

I have been researching about solutions for all this, and I found that it’s my right, as well as my duty, to make the right decision for myself…but my parents say that they don’t care about Qur’an and Hadith. They actually blame me that I am hiding behind all this to serve my agenda.

I am not Muslim, but I need your prayers

I have been feeling pretty low about my life, things that I cannot change, and I sometimes feel suicidal. I’m not spilling my woes here, because I know there is no solution.

Advice on family and mental health?

I just want to live a peaceful life and be happy. My mother is very kind and loving, but she doesn’t understand what I’m going through. She tells me I’m a coward and that I should be brave, but it’s so hard. My family is very dysfunctional and it affects me deeply.

How to balance between a controlling mother and wife

My mother-in-law recently bad-mouthed my mother, which she found out about. Now she laments that her sons don’t stand up for her and she has no one to make people respect her. When I tried to explain that I have very little control over my in-laws, she suggested to send my wife back to her home to ‘teach my in-laws a lesson’.

My husband doesn’t respect my parents

He doesn’t like it if I go out of my way to help my family…. I really need to find a way out of this.

My hatred for my husband’s best friend. Please help!

Subhanallah. I do not even know if its possible to dislike someone so much!

We think my sister has been Jadoo’d

We think that her husband has put Jadoo on her as his family hate my Father. We do not know what to do…