Islamic marriage advice and family advice

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Husband has been cheating on me for five years, should I leave him?

I have been married for 7 years. Recently my husband told me he has been cheating on me for the last five years with random women.

She won’t marry me because I called her names.

But now she has changed saying “I will not marry you or anyone else, I would rather stay home and look after my parents and not get married”, and the she would say “I swear on my granddads grave”. I think its because all the nasty things I been saying to her. She did say once that was the reason, that I called her slag and stuff.

Sexual thoughts and feelings

I have many strong thoughts and feelings sexually… in my state of depression I committed horrible sins.

I managed to bring my husband back, but he has no transparency

I am hesitant to let him back into our lives and he never really asks about the children – he calls or sends txts passed midnight when the kids are asleep – I sometimes speak to him but am concerned about the lack of transparency on his part

Molested by my father who is a Hafiz

He used to wrestle and pins us to the floor, he used to lick our face, kiss us, he used to touch our back. Astagfirullah but I didn’t understand or realised it since I was a teenager. A friend has pointed it out to my sister, she told her once occassion where my dad had pinned her down to the bed and she had felt his private part.

Need advice about thinking in life

I really need advice about how to think and to deal with life, I have been hurt so much. I want to know how you should think and keep your character in Islam to be safe from people. I don’t know how to think anymore because I have been through so much with people and friendship.

Should I trust and marry him if he comes back in my life and wants to marry me?

Please tell me only this thing, should I trust that guy again IF he comes back in my life and want to marry me. He didn’t cheat with me but he made me cry and everyone say “Those who knows the value of your tears will never make you cry.

Should I forgive and give her another chance or shall I leave her and move on?

2days before she told me a secret that she was hiding since the inception of our relationship, she told me that “there was some one in her life before me and that he cheated her”. These words hit my heart so violently that i began to faint. (for a girl whom i have done so much and did not leave her, she has been cheating me on this fact from inception).

Caught Husband to be chatting with girl on MSN

I am so devasted, stressed, angry u name it I feel it :(…I am in a long distance relationship with my fiance ( we have our nikah done, so legally married)….

Hurting and forced to accept things in my married life

I am married for 2 years already. As I had mention on my earlier post I got married to my husband without knowing that he is married. After our wedding few weeks later I learned about his marriage, but he kept me on dark side for so long