Islamic marriage advice and family advice

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Infidelity of spouse; should I carry on with a spouse who doesn’t even love me?

I seeks your advise that what Islam says about this condition where a woman is legally married to man but still is not faithful to him at heart. Is it wise to carry forward this type of relation where one person is bearing other just because of fear of society and relatives, while being unfaithful to him at heart?

Can we both get married in secret despite us being already married?

I know Islamically our marriages have broken down because me and my boyfriend are very intimate and despite being already married but our parents won’t allow that and neither should they know we are intimate. Please can you help me and tell me if I am doing right, if my marriage with my boyfriend will be halaal islamically?

Husband commits adultery when he travels

Just found out my husband commits adultery (a real shock) when he travels and maybe at other times too…

Madly in love with a Muslim guy; who got married recently but I still want to be with him.

We wanted to marry under sharia court in Dubai where we both are living. It’ll be so complicated but its rather live complicated with him that to live life without him. I know many will disagree with the arrangement but what can I do, I never interfered with anybody’s relationship, I just can’t give up on him and so as he cannot give up on me but he also cannot give up his so called wife back home.

I am married to an addict

I have been married for a few years and have one daughter. Soon after the marriage discovered husband was a cocaine addict. Living with an addict is like being tortured slowly..

No intimacy in marriage has driven me to make a female friend just to satisfy my physical needs.

I can not control myself when she comes around. I want to stay with my wife and have a normal family life and enjoy the little things in life, but due to sexual inactivity my concentration is off on almost everything in life. I want divorce to not even be in my vocabulary, but feel like I am not left with a choice.

I want a divorce from my wife and want to marry this other girl who I have been in relationship with.

I am in a situation which is very troubling. Eight years ago I got married to my mother’s identical twin sister’s daughter from Pakistan. For all these years I have put on an act so my mother remains happy. We are not able to have children & last year I became exhausted of living a lie. I met a girl with a beautiful heart and good intentions with whom I and she instantly had a spark and connection with. Unfortunately, she became pregnant with my twin babies & this is when I had to tell her I was still married. I left her with no option but to abort.

My husband cheated on me but I don’t know how to deal with this situation. What are my options?

A week ago I walked through the doors of my home to find my husband in bed with another woman. Apparently she had no idea that he was married, and I know this because I saw the messages that he sent to her. He said he has made Tawbah but I am unsure of his sincerity. He seems to be genuine, but this is not the first incident that we have had; this is just the first time that he had gotten caught in the act. I asked for his reasoning for being defensive but he didn’t reply. All he keeps saying is; I am sorry. I am so confused as to what to do.

She wants her family back but wants her freedom too. How to trust my unfaithful wife?

I have talked with my wife and she gave me a story about her being unfaithful. She told me a story that confirmed my thoughts but now she is telling me that she gave me lie that may be would satisfy my heart and brain. I think she love me but not in the way that she will sacrifice something . I hope somebody knows what to do in this situation as I have lost a lot with my children and parents. On the other hand she is willing to go to imams,and try to convince them that I am the problem and maybe she is right because when I offer a solution she says yes and then it turns to no, Is there somebody who knows how to deal with a lying woman that really wants her family back but she wants the freedom to do what she wants even if its haram.

My wife committed adultery; what should I do?

A Pakistani Muslim man married a Filipino lady in UK about 2 years ago. She embraced Islam at the time of Nikah. Life went on as usual. After 1 year of marriage, Husband visa refused, and he came back to Pakistan. After 6 month, husband received a call from a Filipino man that he had sexual relationship with his wife. Pakistani man confirmed from his wife, she confessed adultery. Now the wife has confessed that she committed adultery, She is not very much repenting and even she is not practising Muslim; she drink wine occasionally; attending Christening parties. She is ready to accept any decision that the husband makes but is also seeking forgiveness.